#Bondage
Are you 19 to 35 and interested in #kink ?
Come join us for a #potluck #picnic on 9/30, https://fetlife.com/events/1335582
#kinky #freaky #RSVP #FetLife #BDSM #bondage #adult #rope #Leather #millennials #Columbus #Ohio #cbus #CentralOhio #ColumbusOH #FemDom #GenZ #Sundayvibes
Outside, the cage can be attached to its collar by a leash when it is allowed to roam "freely."

Wrists in Stocks and Cock in Ass
As seen in the extremely brand new LemmyNSFW community, Stocks and Bondage:
https://lemmynsfw.com/post/2237294
#NSFW #pillory #Bondage #StocksBondage #humiliation #anal #analsex #assfuck #sex #bdsm #kink #kinky #porn #pornography #erotic

Ali had some fun ideas about Ozone sharing Whirlwind. I contributed.
They're gagged under their mask. The visor's video feed is cut, and their headset is playing white noise 💖
#nsfw #oc #originalcharacter #sizedifference #agegap #bondage #sensorydeprivation


Check out this music video . There's a warning that it may be disturbing to some people . Which I can vouch for because it disturbs the shit outa me. It like hits too close to home for me I guess,. Hah, I can relate way way too much I guess, even down to me wearing my Chuck Taylor all star shoes. Fuck, I'm wearing a pair now actually.
Austin P. McKenzie - "Winter" - [Official Music Video]
https://youtu.be/W2wKk0AlBE8?si=uIAK9JByVbjgSEfI
#NSFWart #gid #peril #bondage #bdsm #gay #noncon #jock #torture #athlete #abuse #whump #snuff


Slow down Zombie hehe
https://www.patreon.com/zombiate
https://zombiate.blogspot.com/
#mastoart #krita #nsfw #nsfwart #nsfwhentai #hentai #zombie #zombiegirl #zombieoc #zombiemonstergirl #monstergirl #sexyzombie #gothgirl #zombiegoth #gothzombie #zombiate #domination #submission #master #ds #bondage #ridingcrop #leather #bdsm

Enjoy 28 high-res images of Power Play caged up and vulnerable to any torturous form of penetration Sadist can imagine!
Includes DRM-free eBook of Power Play #7: Obedient Captive!
https://msangelfood.gumroad.com/l/power-play-07-obedient-captive
#gayerotica #gaysuperhero #edgecityheroes #erotica #bondage #bdsm
#gayerotica #erotica #mmerotica #gaysuperheroes #gaysuperhero #superherofetish #spandex #gayspandex #spandexmen #muscles #gaymuscles #bdsm #meninperil #gaybooks #superherodefeated

"Wedgies" Bear series - Bear Cub's Wedgie Training Session

Enjoy 28 high-res images of Power Play caged up and vulnerable to any torturous form of penetration Sadist can imagine!
Includes DRM-free eBook of Power Play #7: Obedient Captive!
https://msangelfood.gumroad.com/l/power-play-07-obedient-captive
#gayerotica #gaysuperhero #edgecityheroes #erotica #bondage #bdsm
#gayerotica #erotica #mmerotica #gaysuperheroes #gaysuperhero #superherofetish #spandex #gayspandex #spandexmen #muscles #gaymuscles #bdsm #meninperil #gaybooks #superherodefeated

Enjoy 28 high-res images of Power Play caged up and vulnerable to any torturous form of penetration Sadist can imagine!
Includes DRM-free eBook of Power Play #7: Obedient Captive!
https://msangelfood.gumroad.com/l/power-play-07-obedient-captive
#gayerotica #gaysuperhero #edgecityheroes #erotica #bondage #bdsm
#gayerotica #erotica #mmerotica #gaysuperheroes #gaysuperhero #superherofetish #spandex #gayspandex #spandexmen #muscles #gaymuscles #bdsm #meninperil #gaybooks #superherodefeated




Zephy finding out how much fun a curious tentacle monster can be~
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9 alts, and more Zephy in all his forms: https://zephyfoxy.art/index.php?category=zephy
#pokemon #gardevoir #femboy #tentacles #consentacles #tentaclejob #tentaclesex #precum #bondage

This Mistress Wields Her Cane Like a Pro
As seen on the new LemmyNSFW community Whipped Women.
https://lemmynsfw.com/post/2186374
#NSFW #Whipping #Caning #Cane #stocks #Bondage #Punishment #ImpactPlay #BDSM #Kink #Kinky #Lesbian #Porn #Pornography #WhippedWomen

Art and leather commissions are open! Also happy to answer questions!
Art application form: https://forms.gle/nw52WVnVwTptL5CD9
Leather application form: https://forms.gle/NdXVh8mnoL9EtsfWA
More info: https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/7775344
#furryart #furrynsfw #art #nsfw #leather #commission #bondage #bdsm




Enjoy 28 high-res images of Power Play caged up and vulnerable to any torturous form of penetration Sadist can imagine!
Includes DRM-free eBook of Power Play #7: Obedient Captive!
https://msangelfood.gumroad.com/l/power-play-07-obedient-captive
#gayerotica #gaysuperhero #edgecityheroes #erotica #bondage #bdsm
#gayerotica #erotica #mmerotica #gaysuperheroes #gaysuperhero #superherofetish #spandex #gayspandex #spandexmen #muscles #gaymuscles #bdsm #meninperil #gaybooks #superherodefeated

Monochrome commission for Vix! This one is kind of special for me because it was done back when my tablet got busted during the pandemic. So it was Kind of an exercise of problem solving and painting with no pressure sensitivity. I laid out everything with the selection tools and then detailed by the following method: Temporal layer-> Hard stroke -> cut down the shape with the hard brush to refine it-> soften edge with an airbrush -> merge down temporal layer; It really opened my eyes to the fact that painting is just careful control of value shape and edges. Sometimes i get the urge to refine these 2020- 2021 works but nahh they are important to me as they are.
#art #furryart #digitalpainting #female #vixen #fox #tentacle #bondage #sex #furry

90 images starring Mina
http://timeline.ilovefrenchgirls.com
photo series added to my blog
enjoy your free download !

No Coach, Hey Ted, Jessie, do you know where Greg is? Coach is looking for him. No, he went off by himself with some girl to party, I bet he will turn up later today. You dont think something happened to him do you?
#NSFWart #noncon #gay #gid #peril, #bondage, #gid #jock #athlete

Ron smiled to himself. Greg was the best, he had to admit it. The guy was awesome on a springboard. And, other places. His eyes drifted down the bulge in the front of Greg' tight team warmup pants. The Diver had a fabulous package. And, that ass. Oh yes - that ass. The stirring between Ron's legs and the thoughts that were running through his mind now led him to reach down and give his stiffening cock a few loving, hungry tugs.
"Hey, Ron - great meet," Jessie Faust said as he stepped up beside the award-winning butterfly swimmer and slapped him on the shoulder.
"Hey, Jessie. Thanks, man. It did go pretty well..." Ron agreed as he smiled. His mind suddenly clicked on something else. Jessie, Greg McBane, Ted, and he would be sharing a room tonight back at the motel. He reached out and grabbed Jessie's arm to pull him several feet from anyone else's line of hearing. "Need a favor, Jess- I'll, um... I'll make it worth your while," he offered in hushed tones.
"Sure, Ron. I'll do anything for you, man - you know that," Jessie replied with a blush. He had a pretty major case of hero worship towards Ron White.
He had an even bigger case of hero worship for the golden blond Diver standing on the other side of the parking lot in front of all of those reporters and television cameras. Greg McBane was his number one idol. The starting Diver had taken him under his wing and had really taught him a lot about diving in general, and about being a Synchro Diver in particular.
"Just name it, Ron," he emphasized.
"Cool. Tonight - when we're back at the motel," Ron said quietly. He paused for a moment to look around and make sure that nobody was within earshot. As his eyes once again shifted across the parking lot and focused on the handsome, tanned smiling face of Greg McBane, he said, "I need you to take a walk for a while tonight."
"Okay..." Jessie said cautiously. There was a strange tone in his teammate's voice as he made this request. So strange, in fact, that it made the little hairs on his neck stand on end. Curiosity immediately began running rampantly through his imagination. "Am I allowed to ask why?"
"Me and Ted are gonna rape Mr. All-American Diver tonight, Jess," Ron advised the back up Diver. "there's an abandoned warehouse in the lot behind the motel, Were going to tie Greg Up and drag him there where we can have some privacy while we use that hot mouth and that tight ass of his," Ron said as he looked Jess in the eyes. He noted the look of shocked disbelief that filled Jessie Faust's eyes. Ron felt his face flushas he realized how easily he had revealed his plan to his teammate.
The jocks jaw dropped as he heard Ron White's plans for Greg McBane. Even more astonishing to him was that Ted Miles, Greg' best friend and synchro diving partner, was in on the idea.
"You're uh... You're not serious. You're kidding... Right?" Jessie asked hesitantly. He could not believe what he was hearing and yet, at the same time, he felt a strange heat erupt deep inside his groin.
He glanced across the parking lot and studied his hero. His number one hero of all time. Greg was the hottest hunk that Jessie had ever seen...and he was straight. The thought of Greg being raped by Ron and Ted was strangely exciting to him. Why?
"Yeah, I'm serious, Jess. I'm dead, fucking serious," Ron said firmly. He glanced at his teammate, grabbed his letter Jacket and pulled him within an inch of his face. "And, if anyone finds out about this..."
"Nobody will find out from me, Ron - I swear. I said that I would do anything for you. I meant that," Jessie argued apprehensively. He knew Ron White's temper. Everyone knew Ron White's temper. He smiled nervously as he found himself wishing that Ron's plan included him watching Ron and Ted gang rape Greg - maybe even joining in and getting a piece of his hero for himself.
Ron grinned sinisterly. He thought that he had recognized a glint in Jessie's eyes every now and then when he looked at Greg. Just now, as the kid stared across the parking lot at Greg, he licked his lips. Ron thought silently, "Maybe he would like to do more than get lost. Maybe he would like to join and make it a three-way rape of our boy, Greg."
He elbowed Jess. "You want a piece of his ass too?" He nodded enticingly in Greg' direction. "You want to join me and Ted and throw a good fuck into your hero's tight pussyboy ass?" He prodded as he saw Jessie's eyes light up at that thought. He thought to himself, "Yeah - this is gonna be one hell of a night."
#NSFWart #noncon #rape #gay #gid #peril, #bondage, #gid #jock #athlete


so today i have been very unwell. normally i'd take this out on Penny, but she's been the main subject of the last couple of sets, so instead Lamia decided to come and visit...
#Silence #Lamia #bondage #muzzlegag #armbinder #strapbondage #forcedorgasm #magicwand


#submissive #shibariropes #bdsm #NSFW #kinbaku #ropes #rigger #ropeart #shibari #nipples #nude #NSFW #bdsmcommunity #bondage #femalerigger #selftie #nippleplay
Lace me up, I'm ready for more.




And just the second prize for the last The Black Mirror contest I held a while back.
This time I was handed a dom to treat at The Mirror. So we provided Danial (BannonHarpsi's OC) the means to take his friends, Brayden and Orandrae for a nice stroll through The Mews.
And it seems like they're having a great time! ^^

Commission for Pyravia featuring Francis J Cat
What a funny tea party!!
#furry #loli #cub #agedifference #sizedifference #bondage #femdom


I've been dying to draw Scarlet Witch lately and it's finally done ! :D
She fell to Mystique's shenanigans and probably so is Janet (The Wasp), who should be next !? :)

Siren's movie night. She makes sure every boy is comfortable, and pink tape helps here a lot~
#mylittlepony #nsfwart #gay #femboy #bondage


#submissive #shibariropes #bdsm #NSFW #kinbaku #ropes #rigger #ropeart #shibari #nipples #nude #NSFW #bdsmcommunity #bondage #femalerigger #selftie #nippleplay #selfportirait #kinbakuart
This was a challenging self tie, and I want to do it again, I love a Thursday full of ropes.




Enjoying some rope with @MrO ♡ #bdsm #bondage #ropebondage #ropebondagesuspensions #shibari

(Germany) this weekend I will be in Kassel, at Randfilmfest showing my film "the Crow and the Goldcrest" with QA and throwing a bondage performance (Saturday 23.9.2023 18h,at the oldest Videotek in the world, kiezkino) with live improvised music. at the same time my film "Kay's 119th Testo shot" will be shown in neighbouring Paderborn at the Paderporn film Festival and I will do QA remotely..
still looking for gigs and work in general, let me know.
#bondage #Germany #PostPorn #feministporn #filmmaker #diyfilm #testo #kassel #paderborn

Francesca Marini tied up in a pink latex straitjacket
#FrancescaMarini #latexstraitjacket #bondage


photo series 299-02
related link : https://wp.me/p2mexi-lG
shot on 2008, March 22
published on Captive Culture

“Garden Gnomes”
13” x 19” art prints.
Drubskin.com
Sometimes gardening is a full contact spurt. #GayArt #GayEroticArt #EroticArt #gnomes #garden #bondage #gangbang #groupsex


"Wedgies" series - Wedgie The Peach n Musk The Face

#bdsm #edging #nude #nipples #Nudity #NSFW #kinky #Submissive #pain #nippleplay #shibari #restrains #bondage
Edging all tied up.



Strapped Down Sleepy
The sleep sack with the larger sized leather restraints just look sexy - and it's all functional - very functional.
https://swindleleather.com/bondage/strapped-down-sleepy/
#Bondage #BondageTable #CBT #LatexHood #LeatherRestraints #SleepSack

FUBUKI Kei
風吹ケイ『Kiss You3』 kei fubuki
#風吹ケイ #KeiFubuki #FubukiKei #SexyJapanese #SexyAsian #gravure #bondage #costume

FUBUKI Kei
風吹ケイ『Kiss You3』 kei fubuki
#風吹ケイ #KeiFubuki #FubukiKei #SexyJapanese #SexyAsian #gravure #bondage #costume




Caught a Sassy Fairy 💜
#fairy #heels #stockings #bigass #thickthighs #legs #fishnets #bondage #mastoart #art #krita #nsfw #nsfwart #illustration


Just posted the first contest prize in HD with a bunch of extras in my subscriptions:
-Fanbox:
https://fanbox.cc/manage/posts/6700669
-DA:
https://deviantart.com/l0rd-black/art/Contest-Prize-1-PrinceOfCanada-983312206
Soon to come, subscribers will have to take a decision on what I'm gonna be spending time on in the near future. So stay tunned!


"The Mysterious Case of Agent Erotica Vs Domina Black"
A Spy-On-Spy Adventure Serial
Get off on the dirtiest spy adventure ever!
http://qblueheart.com/2023/05/09/the-mysterious-case-of-agent-erotica-vs-domina-black/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=tweepsmap-Medium
#Qblueheart #Erotica #Bondage

@artofvom for #bondage (which I mention because of one of your sketches) and associated #erotica, my go-tos are Gromet's Plaza at https://grometsplaza.net/main.html and GaggedUtopia's Stories at https://www.utopiastories.com/home.html .
Utopia had a technical disaster some years back and is no longer updated, but it has a massive archive with good search functionality.
Gromet's is updated frequently.
How to tame your gobbo 💜
#goblingirl #thicc #thickthighs #bondage #nipplepiercings #mastoart #art #krita #nsfw #nsfwart #illustration

Today in BoneQuest History for September 16th 2004 "TO YOU LIVE FROM THE 53RD STATE" https://bonequest.com/2148 #bonequest :spigot: :deuce: #atm_card #bondage #deuce_spigot #drunk_deuce #rapekit #starbucks
Down South Visitor
It's fun when a friend is in town to visit - and we stumble into the dungeon.
https://swindleleather.com/bondage/down-south-visitor/
#Bondage #BondageTable #Catsuit #CBT #Clothespins #GasMask #LeatherRestraints #S10

It’s always sportsball season. Private coaching sessions keep the team focused. #gaysports #bondage

NOT A WORD...
Sign up for the newsletter at www.ParagonIllusions.com
#bdsm #submissive #bdsmcommunity #bondage #bdsmlifestyle #sub #dominant #kink #dom #daddy #master #gayboy #lgbt #gayman #gayartist #gayguy #gayillustration #gaylife #gaymen
#digitalart #lgbtq #gayartwork #hairyman #hairymen #hairychest #hairybear #hairy #hairygay #gaybear #gaybeard

Remember to store properly your gobbo after use 💜
#goblingirl #boots #heels #shortstack #bondage #booty #shortstack #thickthighs #fishnets #mastoart #art #krita #nsfw #nsfwart #illustration
"The Mysterious Case of Agent Erotica Vs Domina Black"
A Spy-On-Spy Adventure Serial
Get off on the dirtiest spy adventure ever!
http://qblueheart.com/2023/05/09/the-mysterious-case-of-agent-erotica-vs-domina-black/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=tweepsmap-Medium
#Qblueheart #Erotica #Bondage

Do good girls get pulled by the leash or the hair? I can't seem to remember..... What do y'all think?
Also, I'm online taking #phoneSex calls tonight. Find me on #Niteflirt and I'll even let you hold the leash: https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/13443362-Your-DREAM-GIRL-wants-to-play-
#Sexting #Lewd #NSFW #TransNSFW #Roleplay #Goddess #TransLewd #BDSM #Bondage #Collars
My member site is now live! For $25, you’ll get to see expanded photosets from my past rope sessions, including some play with my partner, as well as a set of uncensored nudes at the lakeshore that I haven’t shared before.
https://zora.red/
#rope #bondage #shibari #kinbaku #ropeBondage #ropeBottom #NSFW #porn #transPorn #transNSFW #erotic #nude #SWpromo #kink
Pinup for FurryBarioth on FA!
I've currently got 3 slots open for artistic freedom pinups like this, $80 each.
DM if interested, or find more info here: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53624126/
Context: Jalan has total authority over my sexual pleasure, but there's not full-time physical chastity.
Whatever the current state of chastity or denial orders, protocol for dates is that I lock up and pass her the key at the beginning, without knowing if she'll take it off later.
If I have the opportunity, I must ask whether she prefers the cage that has space between the bars (default for dates) or the one with mesh between the bars (default for daily).
Today she chose closed.
Sometime well into the date, after connecting, talking, and cuddling, she tied me up and then started teasing me: her nails on my balls, touching my shaft where it was pushing the cage forward, caressing the cage (no sensation at all), tapping the cage (could feel, but not sexy).
After a while of that, I finally gave in and asked:
"It's not coming off today, is it?"
*big grin* "Uh-uh. I'm having fun just like this."
I love my life
#Kink #BDSM #bondage #FemDom #FLR #MaleChastity #OrgasmDenial
#submissive #shibariropes #bdsm #NSFW #kinbaku #suspension
#ropes #bondage #rigger #ropeart #shibari #japaneseropebondage
#shibariart
Off the ground with the most beautiful views, Thank you, Mr O 💋💋💋💋
🖤
@PureSilver
New Drake collar drop?!
Made from 100% genuine veg tanned leather, this collar features a hand-dyed liner, brass hardware, and dragon scale tooling with metallic gold antiquing. The total width of the collar with the liner is 2". Collar will be sized to fit the buyer. This item is made to order- please allow 4-6 weeks for completion.
View on FA: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53494154/
New Drake collar drop?!
Made from 100% genuine veg tanned leather, this collar features a hand-dyed liner, brass hardware, and dragon scale tooling with metallic gold antiquing. The total width of the collar with the liner is 2". Collar will be sized to fit the buyer. This item is made to order- please allow 4-6 weeks for completion.
View on FA: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53494154/
Leather commissions are open!
More information and pricing: https://cairo-steele.com/
Apply: https://forms.gle/Pw4E1G6ETHWvQpk37
Questions and comments also welcome 😸
Leather commissions are open!
More information and pricing: https://cairo-steele.com/
Apply: https://forms.gle/Pw4E1G6ETHWvQpk37
Questions and comments also welcome 😸
Black & Gold Rune Cuffs! I finished these up for a client yesterday and I love them 🥺💕
View on FA: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53478259
Check out my Etsy shop: https://cairosteele.etsy.com
Commission Info: https://cairo-steele.com/
Black & Gold Rune Cuffs! I finished these up for a client yesterday and I love them 🥺💕
View on FA: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53478259
Check out my Etsy shop: https://cairosteele.etsy.com
Commission Info: https://cairo-steele.com/
Price: $200
(Regularly $250)
Shipping and taxes not included.
Size: 14" - 17"
View on FA: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53470546
Just wrapped up this gorgeous brown and brass collar today! It's a rework of my basic collar pattern, with a rolled top leather liner. It's entirely handmade from vegtan leather, with antique brass hardware. Discounted for minor cosmetic flaws, primarily some indents in the leather around the rivets and an extra set of holes (filled) on the backside of the top strap by the buckle (not visible and should not effect the integrity of the collar).
Price: $200
(Regularly $250)
Shipping and taxes not included.
Size: 14" - 17"
View on FA: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/53470546
Just wrapped up this gorgeous brown and brass collar today! It's a rework of my basic collar pattern, with a rolled top leather liner. It's entirely handmade from vegtan leather, with antique brass hardware. Discounted for minor cosmetic flaws, primarily some indents in the leather around the rivets and an extra set of holes (filled) on the backside of the top strap by the buckle (not visible and should not effect the integrity of the collar).
There was privacy, there was touch, there were snuggles, there was #bondage sex (complete with getting lucky), and there were hours of conversation.
We needed that.
Updated design for this dragonscale leather collar! Now with thicker leather, brighter colors, and a luxurious top leather liner.
DM if interested, boosts VERY appreciated!
More info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/52974128/
#leather #leathercraft #collar #bondage #bdsm #handmade #sale
Updated design for this dragonscale leather collar! Now with thicker leather, brighter colors, and a luxurious top leather liner.
DM if interested, boosts VERY appreciated!
More info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/52974128/
#leather #leathercraft #collar #bondage #bdsm #handmade #sale

#introduction
This profile is extremely #nsfw! :18_plus:
I'm a 28 year old #gay #ftm man living in the Netherlands. I'm also #poly and am kind of inbetween relationships right now.
I recently realized that I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, so I created this account to explore this side of myself a bit more. I plan to post images of myself, as well as short #erotica.
I tend to be very #submissive. Things I like:
- #bondage or otherwise just being #restrained
- #teasing #edging and #denial
- #cnc with an emphasis on _consent_
- Being verbally #humiliated and #degraded
Please feel free to interact with my posts and tell me what you would do to me! I get off on knowing I'm getting you off 😉 If you say something to me that I'm not into, I just won't react
Someone commission (or buy!) a collar from me so I can justify ordering more leather 💦
Pricing info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51927494/
Commission application: https://forms.gle/Pw4E1G6ETHWvQpk37
Premade collars for sale: https://www.etsy.com/shop/cairosteele
#leather #leatherwork #handmade #forsale #collar #bondage #bdsm
Someone commission (or buy!) a collar from me so I can justify ordering more leather 💦
Pricing info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51927494/
Commission application: https://forms.gle/Pw4E1G6ETHWvQpk37
Premade collars for sale: https://www.etsy.com/shop/cairosteele
#leather #leatherwork #handmade #forsale #collar #bondage #bdsm
Leather collar commission for a client!
Handmade from 5oz leather with dragonscale tooling, black hardware, and a velvety soft liner padded with bamboo felt.
Interested in your own leather collar or cuffs? I take commissions! More info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51927494/
Leather collar commission for a client!
Handmade from 5oz leather with dragonscale tooling, black hardware, and a velvety soft liner padded with bamboo felt.
Interested in your own leather collar or cuffs? I take commissions! More info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51927494/
#shibariropes #bdsm #tiemeup #nipples #Nudity #nippleplay #bondage #nsfwart #ropeart #selfportraitphotography
I'm dressed in a little pink on my knees for you, my Dominant 💋
the bondage workshops dates for July 2023 in Berlin with myself and Lun Ário.
write me for details. we have vouchers available, both for workshops or private lessons/sessions.
photo by Thursday Flatline with Steffi Käoz
#shibarilearning #queerberlin #queershibari #shibari #bondage #berlin
Have you been feeling fiery lately? Noticed an urge to hoard things? You might be a dragon! Embrace it with RED DRAKE, a handmade leather collar with dragon scale tooling, antique brass hardware, and a velvety soft suede liner padded with bamboo felt.
More info: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/52974128
Today I want to talk about getting lightheaded and possibly actually fainting/losing consciousness in rope because it's a thing that happens far more often than I think is discussed and I think a lot of riggers and bottoms aren't aware of the factors that contribute to risk of fainting. If you do suspension bondage, you should be aware of this risk. If you bottom for suspensions, you should be prepared to communicate about your physical state while under extreme duress. Both riggers and bottoms should have a plan for how to handle emergency descents should such a situation arise.
Personally, I've gone fully unconscious in rope once and very nearly did so at least 3 other times that I can think of. I've also witnessed several other instances of other people fainting in rope during both play and rope classes. All of these incidents involved suspensions.
So, why do people get lightheaded and possibly even lose consciousness in rope bondage? It's due to something called Vasovagal Syncope which is a part of your autonomic nervous system (the system that controls blood flow, respiration, etc.). Suspension bondage in particular puts a number of stressors on your body that impact your nervous system and your bodies' ability to pump blood to your limbs and organs, and if those stressors become too intense, your body basically does a reboot. And it can be pretty scary (not to mention dangerous) to pass out while you are hanging from a few pieces rope.
There are several factors that I'm aware of that make it more likely to faint in rope which are:
1. Being hot (not sexy hot, temperature hot you perv) - high ambient temperatures and high humidity make your nervous system much more sensitive to other stressors. I've also seen folks vomit while tied up because they got too hot (and/or chugged water while hot) and nausea is another way that the autonomic nervous system indicates there is an problem
2. Being tied in an upright position where the legs are suspended below the heart - vertical suspensions are deceivingly stressful for the body and having the legs suspended below your heart makes pumping blood to your extremities more difficult. I'm not saying don't do vertical positions, I'm saying be aware that they carry more risk factors that increase the chances of a Vasovagal Syncope issue, and if you are going to do them, try to ensure that you have a quick and easy exit plan. I have a friend who was tying with someone while pregnant and did a vertical partial suspension. Neither she nor the rigger had any idea that they were doing a higher risk tie, thinking that a partial suspension in a sort of standing position would be pretty safe. But my friend got dizzy and had to be cut out of the rope because they did not plan an easy exit.
3. Intense pain - of course rope is known for being painful to a degree, but sudden, sharp pain or sustaining painful positions for long periods can activate an autonomic response of fainting.
4. Low blood sugar - if you haven't eaten or have low blood sugar before doing rope, that can cause lightheadedness and risk of fainting
What are the warning signs of Vasovagal Syncope?
You may start to feel a little nauseous and/or dizzy at first. You may feel like you started sweating a lot all of the sudden, like cold sweats when you have a fever, then the dizziness may start to increase rapidly and you may hear a buzzing in your ears, experience blurred vision, or the sensation of the room closing in on you. If you get to that point, you probably only have seconds before your vision will go dark and you will lose consciousness.
If I feel even the slightest bit dizzy or nauseous in rope, I like to let my rigger know immediately so they can be on alert and checking in with me more frequently, and also so they can mentally prepare for a quick exit if need be. I don't have a problem every time I experience dizziness or nausea, but when the Syncope sets in, it does so very quickly so it's best to be prepared.
The one time I actually lost consciousness in rope, we were doing a Hashira suspension which is a vertical suspension tied to a vertical pole (see image 1). We were tying outside and it got a bit warmer than we anticipated. The way Hashira's are done is that each component builds on the next and there is no quick or easy way out. So we basically had ALL the risk factors and no easy way out. And no one else was there to spot or assist with an emergency descent. Oops.
Anyway, I started to feel dizzy and told Secondfloor (my long term romantic partner and rigger) and he immediately started untying me. I had a foot on the ground pretty quickly which is usually enough to stop the issue, but that time it wasn't. I was continuing to progress through all the warning signs I mentioned above and I knew time was running out so I managed to get the words out, "I'm not going to make it" and then I was out. I came to maybe a moment later, sitting on the ground, in Secondfloor's arms, with him continuing to untie the rest of the rope. He had managed to get my limp ass body out of the suspension and on the ground. I was fine, but very shaken up because it's scary to pass out in rope and scary to wake up in a different position than I remembered being in.
The first time I ALMOST fainted, I was tying with a rigger that I def would not recommend. I was in a vertical-ish position (see image 2), feet below heart. I started to get dizzy and tried to push past it because I was new and had a hard time finding people to tie with and I didn't want to seem like I was weak or a shitty bottom. But it didn't go away and just got worse so I had to say something. He started untying me and it felt so excruciatingly slow waiting for him to get me down to the ground. I didn't go out but I was so close, I was at the blurred vision, room closing in stage so I probably only had seconds left when he finally got me down. I don't recall him doing any checkins with me afterwards that evening or anything at all to make me feel like I wasn't a garbage bottom for not being able to handle the tie. He didn't check in on me afterwards either. Please don't be that guy.
Another time I almost fainted, I was tied in a Daruma position (see image 3) which is a VERY intense tie where you are like almost folded in on yourself. I wasn't hot (it was actually quite cold) and my legs were above my heart, but the position was vertical-ish and quite painful + taxing and I guess the position was just too stressful on my body. Anyway we had a good friend there who was shooting photos, so when the dizziness came on, I said I needed to come out NOW and she immediately stopped shooting and helped support my body while we got both my legs down.
In the classes where I've witnessed bottoms fainting, it's always been in pretty advanced level transition classes, but I don't recall any of the bottoms giving any notice that something was wrong, so they may not have known what was happening before it was too late (or maybe they were like me the first time and didn't want to disappoint their rigger). In each instance, the bottoms were assisted down by other people in the classes, sometime with multiple people lifting them so that a carabiner could be unhooked and they could be brought down to the floor before they were untied. Why not cut the rope? That creates a whole other set of safety issues. I'm sure there are times when cutting the rope is the best choice, but usually it's safer to untie or get help lowering the bottom manually than to cut. But mostly the main thing to do if someone is lightheaded is to get them on solid ground and in a recumbent or seated position ASAP. Then once they are stable, get them hydrated and maybe something to eat to make sure blood sugar is good.
Feel free to ask me any questions you have on this topic or add your experiences in the comments.
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Mondays are for introductions, and I think it is good to do them regularly. hashtags in the end to not clog readers.
I am an demi-aro enby polyamorous bondage/shibari teacher and performer living in Berlin, Germany, in the second half of my life. my interests change a lot but these days are around inclusivity mental health, neurodivergence, recovery, intersectional feminism and then furries, queer porn, weird movies from the 70s, noise music, communes, pirates, degrowth, anything diy, currently Thai massage and non carb cooking.
and bondage, always, of course, from a non hierarchical non normative approach.
I lurk a lot, but mastodon makes me feel very safe, so posting more and more.
I am available for hire, in which case you may want to check my pinned stuff, and there might be more personal stuff here than in other platforms, which might be confusing but also more joyful.
thank you for reading.
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Hi! I’m Sadie. I’m a trans girl, in my 30s, I sell nudes, I’m kind of a slut, I kink post a lot, and I’m generally friendly as long as approached respectfully!
I also like music, TTRPG’s, and have my phases with video games.
You can find all my links at https://sadienightshade.com
Say hi, I do bite 😈
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Reels are honestly the only fun part of Instagram anymore but I’m always scared to post rope videos on there because they’ve gotten my account suspended so many times before. Anyway, I was too excited to be back in rope and made this reel. Hope it doesn’t get my account nuked again but at least the fediverse doesn’t hate me and lets me post all the good stuff.
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we prepare for ourselves (and sell small amounts) hand prepared bondage jute ropes. Pick them up in Berlin (Germany) or shipment possible within EU (I will also ship outside EU if you need, but I am sure are better and more energy footprint solutions) . pm me with your questions.
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I teach bondage workshops, diversity oriented and inclusion informed, since 2010 in Berlin, and beyond.
Not your standard commercial event.
Workshops, private lessons/sessions, performances and (ghost) rigging for films and theater, or your event.
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the bondage workshops dates for June 2023 in Berlin with myself and Lun Ário.
write me for details. we have vouchers available, both for workshops or private lessons/sessions.
photo by Thursday Flatline with myself and Hablum
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"It's been so long since I made love, I can't even remember who gets tied up."
Bettie Page
Jim, Vancouver, 2012-01
#man #male #dudeoir #portrait #photography #bdsm #bondage
Alt: four toned black and white images. 1. From the back, Jim tied in a ladder across his forearms held behind his back. 2. Bent over, from the back, legs & butt, Jim giving me the finger brat style. 3. Profile headshot with one strand of rope around his neck, intense pained expression. 4. Après scène, face shot of him crying.
Hi! I created arabi.gay and so here's a re #introduction and #kinktroduction !
Hello, I'm Zack, aka pup Wardi. I'm a #Palestinian #gay #queer #polyam #kinky #switch #vers #pup living in #Toronto, #Canada. he/him.
Interests
- During the day I work as a distributed systems #engineer and I have general interest in #tech.
- My "radical" political idea is that I want everyone to be ok and have their basic needs met.
- I will post and boost about #politics in Canada, the #SWANA region and #Palestine
- #Baking #cooking
- #art admirer, especially #queerArt. I #doodle and #craft sometimes.
Socials
- IG: zackarired.
- I was @zackarired@woof.group and @zackarired@tech.lgbt . Managing only one account from now on.
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Kinks
like the look of these pics and our body and toes?
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(yes this one's a repost from our main lol)
Agura shibari with the mega hottie, Blue Tongue Skank. She had told me that she struggled with Agura (cross legged) ties and hadn't been able to do them successfully before. I happen to think my Agura pattern is pretty damn cozy and sustainable so I persuaded her to give it a try. She rocked the tie as I knew she would, and now she can say she IS able to do Agura just fine as long as it's a well-tied one :P
More from this session can be found on my website:
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In a personal level, recently at one of my bondage workshops somebody reminded me of the sentence: you grow up to be the person you needed most around.
so I made my bondage workshops, which are far from perfection, such: places where we decide together in an assembly what to learn, the time management, where people can be slow, have meltdowns, cry, be weird.
not your comercial one-size-fits-all event.
Ah you know what let's do an up to date #introduction post.
Hi we're Erica 💚 / eeby 💜. We're a poorly explored system. Other aspects rarely speak but are represented with 🖤🧡💗💙
We're pretty dang gay and a total sapphic disaster.
Traumaqueer; prone to The Sads.
We're fond of tiny #spoods with big cute eyes, #ferrets, and other #mustelids.
#Moss #lichen and the #geology they grow upon.
We're also rather fond of being tied up. Mostly in the Australian bush. On rocks, over streams, to trees #bondage #ropebunny
#Masochist too just for good measure. Pain on my terms is delicious. Budding bleeder. Amateur pincushion. Perfunctory punching bag.
We are, as expected, very much #NSFW but if our clothes are off, or if our red stuff is showing, we will put it behind a warning.
Steve Ellis, 2015-08.
#man #male #dudeoir #portrait #photography #bondage #rope #fucking #gag
Four colour photos on black. 1. Headshot, eyes closed, red gag in mouth, red rope around neck. 2. Erect cock in bondage, surrounded by many red rope ends. 3. Closeup of his piss hole being held open. 4. Greasy cock about to slide into his ass.
I tried to fit all these in my profile but they just won’t. So let’s try it this way!
I IDENTIFY AS
#gay #bottom #EthicalSlut #beta #faggot #submissive #masochist #ServiceSlave #CumPig #PissPig #CumDump #GayBear #autistic #ActuallyAutistic #neurodivergent
INTERESTS AND FETISHES
#piss #WS #watersports #urinal #sounding #CBT #gangbang #GroupSex #orgy #bareback #ImpactPlay #spanking #whip #cane #ENM #bestiality #beastiality #beast #gag #jood #bondage #collar #leash #HookPull #ThePath #spirituality #NeedlePlay #bodymod #cockmod #meatotomy #subincision #UrethraPlay #UrethralInsertion #UrethralStretching #spit #degradation #PublicSex #RoughSex #CNC #ServiceStraightCock #incest #FatherSon #DadSon #BootLicking #FootWorship #underwear #bulge #biting #OpenFamily #TitTorture
Here’s me getting fucked real good by @Secondfloor in a country cabin. My arms are tied in strappado/armbinder position and I’m bent over a counter & getting fucked from behind. There is rope around my neck.
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like the look of these pics and our body and toes?
want to pay less than $10 for a set of 28 high quality pictures, including uncropped versions of these?
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Hi!
I'm Guyom, I'm a 33yo kinkster living in France
In my day life I deal with maths and programming, I am a bit of a nerd 👓
Avid tinkerer and DIYer, especially electronics and 3D printing
I fully embraced my kinky side to explore my fantasies 😈. Into #leather, #bondage, #estim, curious about #rubber and many others, I am still exploring ;)
Moderate #gearhead and also making some of it myself #leathercraft
the bondage workshops dates for March 2023 in Berlin with myself and Lun Ário.
write me for details. we have vouchers available, both for workshops or private lessons/sessions.
photo by me with KAy Garnellen
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Been here a week now so it’s #introduction time!
Been into #Leather for a long time now, recently developed an interest in #neoprene.
Interests: #bondage #cbt #electro #impact #piercings #tattoos
Proud Boss to a hard working Bull. Ex British guy in Australia.
Other interests: #gym #gaming #synthwave #banjo
Other than that, just ask I guess 👍
The reboot we needed... 📺
Photograph of Mary Tyler Moore riding Dick Van Dyke.
📸 by Annie Leibovitz
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