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#LifeLessons

Adrian Segar
12 hours ago

Some musings on what Søren Kierkegaard once said: "Life can only be understood by looking backward, but it must be lived looking forward."

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/life-lessons/2023/05/looking-backward

#LivingInTheMoment #LifeLessons #forgiveness #LifeReview #mistakes

Looking backward: A cartoon by Tom Gauld: "The musings of Kierkegaard"
Golden Retriever GF
15 hours ago

I have learned that humidity is a temperature bull sh!t modifier. I lived in the Rocky Mountains in the US for many years. Colorado, Montana and New Mexico so when my Girlfriend in Germany said "It's cold as balls. It's 1 here!" I scoffed.

But the truth is I was in error. I thought because Colorado and Montana can get to -30 ( these are in Celsius btw ) that I was safe. But Colorado is practically an Alpine Desert. High humidity is like 25%. Like it's snowed in July where I live before, CLEARLY these people can't handle the cold. My friend from Georgia ( the State ) said "Noooo that's real cold at 100% humidity". I once again scoffed.

I packed my bags with a few sweaters and a light coat to move to Germany. I only had money and time for two suitcases and these pitiful German winters were nothing to my hardened Colorado winter exterior. Somewhere I heard a rooster crow. I'd erred a third time.

It turns out humidity is bull sh!t. When it's cold at 100% humidity it 100 times colder. When it's hot at 100% it's 100 times hotter. By November I needed to buy my first winter coat to handle the 3 degrees it was outside. I'd go out in just a sweater with that in Colorado.

To be clear Wind Chill is a direct subtraction. Debuff is manageable with a wind or rain coat.

Humidity is a percentage based debuff. In ranges of 100% you are taking stacking cold or heat damage regardless of protective gear. Mitigate best with short shorts and tank tops in heat and Coats, layers, and cuddles in cold.

#immigrantlife #winter #lifelessons

Jeffrey K. Walker
17 hours ago

I’ve successfully lived my life by the aphorism “it’s better to be lucky than smart.”
#lifelessons

Some excellent advice from #BladesInTheDark.

Note that this applies to any game, tabletop or otherwise, as well as, like, the world at large. ;) #TTRPG #LifeLessons #LifeLessonsFromTheTabletop #IThinkWeShouldMakeThatTagAThing

Text extracted from the image of a boom: Note that this is not a player vs. player system. When characters come into conflict, the players must still collaborate and make judgment calls together as usual. Conflicts between players are outside the scope of the game; they can't be resolved with the dice rolls and mechanics of Blades in the Dark. If the players-not their characters-are in conflict, you'll have to work it out using social methods, then return to the game when it's resolved. Don't try to use thegame as a way to dodge or replace a normal social interaction to resolve person-to-person conflict.
David Bombal
3 days ago

Every day you wait is another day you'll never get back again.

#DailyMotivation #inspiration #motivation #bestadvice #lifelessons #changeyourmindset

LBHuston
4 days ago

It is a universal truth that no matter what we do, we will always be a bad guy to someone when they tell their tale.

Read the full article: Always the Villain
https://lttr.ai/AKy3r

#lifelessons #UniversalTruth #BadGuy

Adrian Segar
4 days ago

My father's death—should we force the terminally ill to accept sustenance? Voluntary Terminal Dehydration can allow relief from suffering.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/life-lessons/2015/08/my-fathers-death-should-we-force-the-terminally-ill-to-accept-sustenance

#lifelessons #death #dying #dignity #VTD

Voluntary Terminal Dehydration: THE DEATH OF JOSHUA SEGAR By Richard Davis, © 2008 Brattleboro Reformer: May 23
David Bombal
4 days ago
Adrian Segar
5 days ago
work we don't notice: photograph of a bright red cooked lobster with bands around its claws, sitting on a plate on a dining table. Image attribution: Flickr user subinev
Stefano Marinelli
5 days ago

Dear friends of the #BSDCafe and the entire #Fediverse, today's motto, as my grandfather used to say:
'Trying to wash a donkey's head only results in a waste of water and soap.'

#WisdomFromGrandpa #LifeLessons #PracticalWisdom #WasteNot #SageAdvice #LearnFromElders #TimeManagement #Resourcefulness #CommonSense

David Bombal
6 days ago

What you do makes a difference and you have to decide what the difference you want to make.

#DailyMotivation #inspiration #motivation #bestadvice #lifelessons #changeyourmindset

David Bombal
1 week ago
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David Bombal
1 week ago

Every single morning we get a chance to begin again.

#DailyMotivation #inspiration #motivation #bestadvice #lifelessons #changeyourmindset

David Bombal
2 weeks ago

Just because you're down doesn't mean you gotta stay down.

#DailyMotivation #inspiration #motivation #bestadvice #lifelessons #changeyourmindset

David Bombal
2 weeks ago
Kirsten Verdel
2 weeks ago

De klas van de 7-jarige doet voor het eerst aan surprises. Niemand vertellen wie je hebt!

Dus… tóch verteld aan een klasgenootje. Maar die mocht het aan niemand vertellen! Geheim!

Nu to-ta-le verbijstering dat het tóch is verklapt door dat klasgenootje.

#lifelessons

Adrian Segar
2 weeks ago

Process, not product. It took me ten years to realize that the process I use to achieve my goals is more important than the end result.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/soapbox/2010/10/process-not-product

#LifeLessons #working #goals #habits #process #product

process not product: photograph of a wall of yellow sticky notes, each filled with a few words and an occasional diagram. Image attribution: Flickr user sixmilliondollardan
Prism & Pen
2 weeks ago

People will say, “It is all in your mind and just a number.” I add with my sound bite, “True, but sometimes the body has a mind of its own!”
https://medium.com/prismnpen/the-things-you-do-when-you-are-young-and-gay-02fe7e28f0fe?sk=cabf38f76763e9db170481193907f9b6

#LGBTQ #Gay #Aging #LifeLessons #Youth

David Bombal
2 weeks ago
David Bombal
2 weeks ago

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.

#DailyMotivation #inspiration #motivation #bestadvice #lifelessons #changeyourmindset

🟡Michael Clifford Carter
2 weeks ago

True Strength is Knowing When to Hold On and When to Let Go. #Empowerment #LifeLessons #FindingBalance #SelfDiscovery #StrengthWithin

DeniseGutzmer
2 weeks ago

#Lifelessons I’m #stilllearning some days.

Graphic of a poem.
We complicate life by feeling that we need to be more or less in so many ways, when the truth is that we just need to be the best version of ourselves as we are – today.
Act with kindness, lead with love, and leave the moments we live a little better than how we found them.
Topper Kearby

@mikecarter
I am realizing this so much in the last 18 months. Quit my job for my mental health. Started a consulting business and am caregiving my best friend who is also my mom. #LifeLessons indeed!

🟡Michael Clifford Carter
2 weeks ago

The Best Things in Life are the People We Love, the Places We've Been, and the Memories We've Made. Everything Else is Just Stuff. #GratitudeAttitude #LifeLessons

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CoffeeGeek
1 month ago

Found that old quote. When I was featured in one of the coffee trade mags around 2010, I talked about how I was constantly learning new things and encouraged others to do the same. Here's my direct quote:

"Those who are coffee enthusiasts, pros, baristas: never be afraid of having your opinion changed on coffee. It means you're learning."

I have to constantly remember that rule myself.

#lifelessons

🌅 Ben Soule ⛱️:coffefied:
1 month ago

@nisreen
Dehumanization leads to savagery and a loss of innocence. Innocence is already rare.

#Humankind #Humanity #LifeLessons

Stefano Marinelli
2 months ago

Today, something odd happened to me, slightly concerning but which, fortunately, ended on a positive note and with deep reflection.
They're doing some renovations in my office, so I sat down at a café table to work. I had with me an old HP laptop running FreeBSD. Ferrara is generally a peaceful city, but lately, some groups of youngsters have been causing trouble, going around bothering people, and in extreme cases, starting fights.
Today, it was my turn.
As they roamed around trying to provoke others, two of them approached me and began touching my laptop. They mocked me, jesting (not so playfully) about how ancient my computer was and how "they needed a computer," picking it up and examining it. Politely, I told them I needed it for work and it had all my files, so I couldn't just hand it over. It was broad daylight, but no one else was around at that moment. One of them noticed something unusual - "Where's the Windows menu? Is this Linux?"
"No, it's FreeBSD. Have you ever heard of it?" Their surprised expressions said it all. The entire group gathered, sat on the ground, and listened intently for about 15 minutes. I stalled, hoping for other people to arrive, so I wasn't alone.
Eventually, they got up, told me I was "old" but cool, and that they would immediately try out the BSDs (they were particularly intrigued by OpenBSD's security features - which they didn't grasp fully but saw as "professional hacker stuff"). They gave me a high-five, peacefully, without bothering anyone further.

Now, I'm left wondering: did they leave me alone because they learned something intriguing from me, because other people arrived, or are they just bored teenagers causing issues to pass the time - and got engrossed in something new, hence shifting their focus temporarily? All I know is I was relieved to get back to my office and from there, hear the rain outside, which usually deters these boys from troubling others.

I can say that today, FreeBSD saved me from very different problems than it usually does 😃

#FreeBSD #OpenBSD #LifeLessons #UnexpectedTurns #RunBSD #SavedByFreeBSD

The Coding Beard
2 months ago

Happy Thursday. #lifelessons #advice

“The truth is that there is only one terminal dignity — love. And the story of a love is not important. What is important is that one is capable of love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity.” — Helen Hayes

#sculpture #LifeLessons #life

The Sears Tower framed within the “legs” of the Alexander Calder sculpture Flamingo.

I’m scheduling bookings for my final quarter of 2023, and have space on my calendar for two coaching clients. Just as butterflies need a branch to stabilize their cocoons during the transformation process, a life coach can help support your growth.

Book a free consultation at info@mollycantrellkraig.co

#LifeCoach #testimonial #LifeLessons #PersonalGrowth #GrowthMindset #transformation #PersonalDevelopment #SelfCare #SelfHelp

Branded art for my coaching offerings. Background: teal, with two huge arrows pointing opposites from each other. One says OLD LIFE. The other says NEW LIFE. In the foreground is a stock image of a person shrugging, eyes upraised and biting lower lip as if considering their options. To their right is a sentence that reads "Have you considered a life coach?"

The Queen Mary is steered by a very teeny rudder in comparison to her overall size. Your life’s trajectory is similarly constructed. It is our own consistent actions, regardless of the size, that determine where we go.

https://mollycantrellkraig.co/keeping-it-simple-when-your-life-is-in-chaos/

#LifeCoach #blog #change #writing #writer #growth #chaos #life #books #LifeLessons

Branded art for my blog. Close up of a ship’s rudder, under water. A clip art photo of a man is pointing to the rudder, and a word bubble next to his head read, "This little piece of metal steers the ship!"

Pay attention to what you truly love. It is your compass. Your brain controls logistics. Don’t get it twisted.

#qotd #brain #heart #goals #love #quotes #growth #mindset #LifeLessons #LifeCoach #author

Branded quote of mine: Your heart is the compass. Your brain is the navigator.
The Coding Beard
3 months ago

Life advice - always try to be the goose in the #middle. #geese #greatideas #lifelessons #SpicyStuff

MattPotter
3 months ago

The sunflower’s lesson: Turn to face into the things that nourish you. This recharge came as I wandered through late summer fields with my youngest and felt these towering presences rise all around and above us both, pointing to and gorging on the golden sun even as the clouds above us darkened.

#nofilter #sunflowers #sunflower #nofilterneeded #girasoles🌻 #sunflowers🌻 #latesummerflowers #morningwalk #facethesun #mentalhealthmatters #nourishyourself #mentalhealth #lifelessons

View from deep inside a field of towering sunflowers in England, glowing green and gold as they turn to catch the sun and dark clouds loom above
Alternative angle: View from deep inside a field of towering sunflowers in England, glowing green and gold as they turn to catch the sun and dark clouds loom above
David Bombal
3 months ago
Cole Haddon
4 months ago

'Meditations on Mortality and Cinema: Kurosowa, Scorsese, and Friedkin'

A bittersweet cinematic awakening awaits many filmmakers as they approach the end of their lives.

“Just when you learn how to do it, you're too old. Except in your dreams."

Read: https://colehaddon.substack.com/p/a-meditation-on-mortality-in-cinema

#film #movies #cinema #filmmaking #screenwriting #directing #MartinScorsese #AkiraKurosawa #williamfriedkin #art #aging #mortality #lifelessons

Director William Friedkin looking at the camera, holding up a finger as if to say, "No, no, no."
David Bombal
4 months ago

I don't know how to act my age, I've never been this age before.

#DailyMotivation #inspiration #motivation #bestadvice #lifelessons #changeyourmindset

Adrian Segar
4 months ago

Are you old yet? I'm not. I agree with Nobel Prize winner Rosalyn Yalow, who said: "As long as you're learning, you're not old."

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/life-lessons/2020/10/are-you-old-yet/

#LifeLessons #AreYouOldYet #aging #skateboarding #learning 

are you old yet? a photograph of the 69-year-old skateboarding college professor Tom Winter
Prism & Pen
4 months ago

Folks, you know when you see memes on the internet asking: “Are the straights ok?”
You chuckle. You might Like or Repost it. If you’re feeling particularly playful, you might share it with a friend in jest.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/clean-anus-gayness-getting-to-the-bottom-of-fragile-masculinity-81c29772e869

#LGBTQ #Gay #Queer #LifeLessons #SocialIssues #Hygiene

Rudy
5 months ago

experience is what allows you to recognize a mistake when you're making it again

#LifeLessons

Alison Hawke
5 months ago

After a trip to visit my parents, who are in their 80s, I want to tell everyone:

Use the 'good' plates and cutlery. Don't save it for later, use it now!

Wear the handmade hat or scarf, someone loved you enough to invest the time in it and it cheers them immensely when it is used.

Visit your favourite places.

Play the music you love.

Ask for what you need, no-one else can read your mind. If you want hard-copy photos, please say so and you will be given them.

#LifeLessons #GrowingOld

🤘 The Metal Dog 🤘
5 months ago

#TheMetalDogArticleList
#AmericanSongwriter
The 15 Best Keith Richards Quotes
Keith Richards is equal parts rough-and-tumble rocker and well-respected musician. His grittiness is balanced out by his guitar playing.

https://americansongwriter.com/the-15-best-keith-richards-quotes/

#KeithRichards #RollingStones #MusicQuotes #FamousQuotes #LifeLessons #Inspiration #Motivation #AmericanSongwriter #RocknRoll #Songwriting #GuitarPlaying #SongwritingAdvice

David Bombal
5 months ago
Andy Wingo
5 months ago

the lesson i have learned from this is that sometimes to fix a bug, you need to go out and have some pizza and beer. sometimes you will fix the bug afterwards but in any case you will have had pizza and beer #wisdom #knowledge #lifelessons

Jester
6 months ago
dotAGE - Michele Pirovano
6 months ago

Storms are quite a nuisance! If a building gets flooded, it cannot be used until you dry it up!

How? With enough spare paper, of course.

#gamer #lifelessons #Nintendo #videogames

Patrick Stewart
6 months ago

After my #grandmother inlaw's funeral #today, I came home and wrote my #feelings into a #poem. Here it is for you as a #friend link on #Medium.

The Inevitable Conclusion by Patrick Stewart

https://thetaoist.online/the-inevitable-conclusion-b62e9fa62c5e?sk=6d9508e61cc172bd3705ad5c15e150f7

#death #funeral #life #lifelessons #journey #poetry #poem @poetry

🟡Michael Clifford Carter
7 months ago

Life Is Like a Baseball Game, You Never Know What Pitch Is Coming Next. So Be Ready to Swing for the Fences! #LifeLessons #BaseballWisdom

Markus Eisele
7 months ago

Tim Minchin shares 9 life lessons at UWA Graduation Ceremony
https://www.news.uwa.edu.au/archive/201309176069/alumni/tim-minchin-stars-uwa-graduation-ceremony/
#lifelessons #beateacher
👆 watch. If it's nothing else today but this.

David Bombal
8 months ago
Justin
8 months ago

Failing my kids today at imparting sound investment wisdom. Literally handed them one basket & told them to put all their eggs in that one basket #LifeLessons #Diversification #HappyEaster

David Bombal
8 months ago
Teja Ray Shankara
8 months ago

Howdy, good people…. 👋🥰❤️🧡

Just published, “Mental Illness: Identifying the Branches and Realizing the Roots — #4 of a series — highlights from a lifetime of journals”:

https://medium.com/@tejashankara/mental-illness-identifying-the-branches-and-realizing-the-roots-d60a8a4a2401

#MentalHealth #MentalIllness #Anxiety #ManicDepression #HSP #Misophonia #Death #Fibromyalgia #LifeLessons #Journaling #MediumWriters #MediumWriter #Medium

Brass colored woman’s face with branches sprouting out of it, with dark background and golden light on her and on the branches. Image: Stefan Keller on Pixabay.
Bastian Olivér
8 months ago

Verweile nicht im Unbehagen der Einsamkeit, wenn du allein zu Hause sitzt. Erforsche die verborgene Poesie, die in der Stille liegt und lass dich von ihr inspirieren. Sie kann dir neue Perspektiven und wertvolle Einsichten schenken. #lifelessons

Erik Sagen
8 months ago

Reminding myself lately that in all things I tend to value accomplishment over achievement. #GrowthMindset #Lifelessons #PersonalGrowth

Transformation is messy. Having someone who can help navigate change can help you evolve into your next stage.

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Text reads: Just as butterflies need a branch to stabilize their cocoons during the transformation process, a life coach can help support your growth. Book a free consultation at info@mollycantrellkraig.co
@zutalorz🤕
10 months ago

#lifelessons

when i was around 19 i was given my first show of my paintings in a small gallery on the condition i sat in the gallery for the 2 week run
and everyday that i sat there someone would come in and point to one and say "this is your best work!"
and everyday it was a different one that they choose to say it about.

Cole Haddon
10 months ago

NEW ESSAY: On the Sanctity of Touch

We take touch for granted…until it’s gone.

This is one of the most personal things I've shared on Medium, but also, I think, one of the most universal -- especially in the wake of COVID.

Read here: https://medium.com/@cole.haddon/on-the-sanctity-of-touch-480468f1c594

#life #death #lifelessons #family #COVID #COVID19 #grief #love

@WhenISayJ @maggie_a_lee

In Improv, when a team mate makes a statement or declaration about the scene you are in together. They are giving you a gift.

The "Yes and" is the act of accepting the gift and adding too it. Building upon the gift you have been given to create something even better.

#Improv #LifeLessons

At “failure junctions” in your life, you will lose friends. Your network will change. It is supposed to. Through the learning of your lesson, your polarity will change; you‘ll fall out of alignment with some of your friends (maybe even family).

https://mollycantrellkraig.co/not-everyone-deserves-your-weakness/

#transition #change #failure #LifeLessons #writer #Writing #author #alignment #SelfCare #friends #relationships

Deborah Elizabeth Finn
11 months ago

The screenshot I used in the previous post was not really complete, so here is a better one. Please note the Creative Commons license.

To be found at https://deborahelizabethfinn.wordpress.com

@epistemology
@nptech
@informatics
#DataScience
@philosophy
#KnowlegeManagement
#Analytics
#InformationScience
#context
#CommunityInput
#experience
#GoodDecisions
#LifeLessons
#analysis
#Intuition

The wisdom cycle.

Data to information to knowledge to wisdom

Pay attention to the words you use each day: both the ones you use when talking w/others & when talking to yourself. Your words are the syllabic foundation upon which you build the world you inhabit.

Full blog post (and dog references) here:

https://mollycantrellkraig.co/these-two-words-pave-the-way-for-possibility/

#Manners #Growth #GrowthMindset #Opportunity #kids #dogs #leadership #magic #LifeHack #life #LifeLessons #Author #WordsMatter #words #WordNerd

Roman ALAN
1 year ago

@TheRaDR

All around the world, precipitation falls in random places at random times.

Some places get a surplus of this life-enhancing stuff; some places end up with a lack.

Farmers came up with irrigation as a way of distributing water fairly.

"Advantage" falls in rain-like patterns.

"Privilege" is me with advantages that I forget to share.

Remember that no one person chooses the time, place, or situation of their birth.

As my grandmother always said,
"Share nicely."

#LifeLessons