#NeuroDivergent
Another potential resource for neurodivergent folks in #HigherEd is ReASoN. If you're looking for some community, check them out. They're relatively new and based out of the UK, but they have online meetings and speakers. Check out ReASoN's website for more resources and recordings of their talks.
#ADHD #Neurodivergent #Autism #AcademicChatter #Disability #Accessibility #DisabledInHigherEd
#DisabledStudents

I wonder if its an ADHD thing to have so many thoughts going through your head and blurting them out and annoying people cause not every thought needs to be heard. Maybe I just have ADHD with a side of verbal diarrhea.
#ADHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergence #ADHDmemes #memes #meme
Question... if you get diagnosed with something like a disability, do you HAVE to disclose that to employers etc?
I'm doing a bonus stream tonight from 19:30 BST (UTC+1) to continue my Horizon Zero Dawn playthrough 🎮
https://www.twitch.tv/sleepycatten
It'd be cool if you want to join me, but honestly no worries or pressure :TransHeart: :NeurodiversitySymbol:
#streaming #Twitch #queer #trans #transgender #TransWoman #TransFem #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #PCGaming #HorizonZeroDawn
Teehee femboy time!
#Teehee #Peace #Sign #Hippie #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Origami #RoseBoy #Kawaii #GenderQueer #Teeth #Twink #Mask #Submissive #Clothing #Masked #NonBinary #Bisexual #Bottom #Top #PaleSkin #CrossDresser #Socks #Autistic #Dance #Dominant #NeuroDivergent #Paper #StuffedAnimal #Switch #Blushing #Choker #Anime #ThighHighs #Fangs #Femininity

Hi folks - please forgive a cross network post.
Someone I follow on LinkedIn is looking for #podcast collaborators.
Stealing from their description:
"[They are] especially interested in collaborating with #neurodivergent #women/ #nonbinary folks of color who have experience in the #corporate world and enjoy leading with authenticity and humor."
Full info is available via the LinkedIn link above.
This is the link to their #podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/26-depathologizing-and-neuroqueering-neurodivergence/id1548282200?i=1000627933616
Thought that folk here might be interested :)
I am going for a check up with a #adhd specialist for the first time since I got my diagnosis (yup) - I will maybe be able to have her as my psychiatrist. I would be so happy to be followed by someone who actually understands what's going on 🥰 I will ask her about the #autism diagnosis since there are no specialist in my (rather) big town and see if she's up to follow me there
#psychiatry #mentalhealth #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #audhd #diagnosis
#introduction
Since I've just moved (thanks to the Sunny Garden admins/mods for this place, and Cup of Tea people for my old home)🔃
🌍 I'm Enne (ɛn), punny full name: Aily Enne Bee, they/them, e/em/eir/emself, a trans/non-binary/polygender, neurodivergent, bilingual, omni-demisexual human who happens to be visually impaired.
I have 12 years of experience in:
✔ Music production and sound design (mixing, editing, sample creating, synth programming, synthesis…).
✔ Audio game/software/web development (AngelScript, PHP, JavaScript, HTML, PureBasic, some (C and Python)).
I like nature, pets (especially cats), wind chimes, light rain, music (especially EDM), poetry, Critical Roll, Doctor Who, Formula1, audio dramas, technology, books (especially fantasy and romance), mental health, etc.
I believe in peace, treating everyone equally (with respect), and using one's privileges to benefit people who aren't as fortunate.
The rights of marginalized minorities are basic human rights.
I'm accepting of BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, ND and DID people, as well as everyone else.
#sunnyGarden #cupOfTeaSocial #trans #nonBinary #polygender #neurodivergent #bilingual #omnisexual #demisexual #visuallyImpaired #musicProduction #soundDesign #reaper #gamedev #angelScript #php #javaScript #html #pureBasic #python #nature #pets #cats #windchimes #rain #music #EDM #poetry #criticalRoll #doctorWho #f1 #audioDrama #tech #books #fantasy #romance #mentalHealth #peace #lgbtqia #bipoc #did #woke
Next was an important talk by Lauren Guilmette on a #queer and #neurodivergent approach to understanding attention and affect at Oxford https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-66B6mZz_k (5/12) #philosophy
🥥 Eye'm #neurodivergent, therefore I am.
How 'bout dese cartes? #Descartes 🥥
Unfucked femboy stuck in trance!
#SissyCaptions #Captions #Trance #Stuck #Unfucked #Tip #PSA #NSFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Ladyboy #Testicles #Fashion #Shemale #Tgirl #Balls #NeuroDivergent #Goddess #RoseBoy #GenderQueer #Coomer #Upskirt #Autistic #Bisexual #CropTop #Girlcock #Intimate #Mask #Slut #CrossDresser #Tease #Uncircumcised #Fetish #StuffedAnimal #Taboo

Pet femboy begging!
#Begging #Pet #PetPlay #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Feminine #Masked #RoseBoy #Clothing #Dominant #Fangs #Choker #CrossDresser #Femininity #Twink #Trap #Fashion #Socks #Fishnets #Blushing #MTF #GenderQueer #CropTop #Autistic #Kawaii #Top #Paper #Anime #Space #NeuroDivergent #NonBinary #ThighHighs #Submissive #Switch #Teeth #StuffedAnimal

Femboy moment 36!
#Dance #wink #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #StuffedAnimal #Top #Feminine #Mask #Trap #Femininity #Bisexual #Submissive #Socks #CrossDresser #Choker #Fishnets #Switch #MTF #CropTop #Teeth #Anime #RoseBoy #Paper #ThighHighs #Dominant #Fashion #GenderQueer #Origami #Bottom #NeuroDivergent #Autistic #Clothing #Twink #NonBinary #Blushing #PaleSkin #Fangs

A friend who vlogs about solo travel noticed a sign about sensory sensitivity aboard a #Carvinal cruise ship today. Has anyone had experience with their "sensory inclusivity" program or #KultureCity?
https://help.carnival.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/6469/~/kulturecity-sensory-certified
https://www.kulturecity.org/carnival/
#neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #Autism #SensoryIssues #travel #cruising #SensoryInclusive @actuallyautistic

Lots of good resources mentioned in this thread for people managing employees with neurodivergence like #ADHD and #autism, as well as for people who are #neurodivergent.
My husband has ADHD, and is a coach (MS Psych) for people functioning in work environments that are hostile/indifferent to neurodivergent employees. He works with their managers too. He’s writing a guide to address the management disconnect you mention, @stavvers. I showed him this thread. I’ll share here when it’s available.
Be kind to your fellow #neurodivergent #gamedev peeps. Please use CW for political posts.
😢
I hate being interrupted during a task. I'll invariably forget where the fuck I was. #ActuallyAutistic #ADD #NeuroDivergent
Dear ADHD brain, we have a deadline approaching. Fast.
Can we handle this like the sane, responsible adult being I pretend to be and skip anxiety, panic attacks and insomnia for once? Please?
Sweaty Femboy Feet And Shoe Play!
Full video: https://fansly.com/post/563389489070747648
#FootPlay #Sweaty #Shoes #Undressing #Peeling #Feet #BareFoot #Rubbing #NSFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #NeuroDivergent #Naughty #Ass #Socks #Bisexual #Presenting #Teeth #Fishnets #Horny #Feminine #Thighs #Testicles #StuffedAnimal #Anime #Ussy #Femininity #Bulge #Twink #Autistic #Gooner #NonBinary

I love you! <3 (Except a certain someone).
#Love #Heart #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Fashion #Tummy #Blushing #PaleSkin #NonBinary #BellyButton #Fishnets #Top #Origami #StuffedAnimal #Femininity #Bottom #CropTop #NeuroDivergent #Switch #Paper #RoseBoy #Feminine #Anime #MTF #Choker #Dominant #CrossDresser #Masked #GenderQueer #Mask #Teeth #Bisexual #Trap #Clothing

Femboy discusses aimtrainer usage!
#Aim #Training #AimTrainer #Games #Shooting #FPS #Time #Usage #Fun #Playing #Vlog #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Clothing #Masked #MTF #Anime #Bisexual #NeuroDivergent #Blushing #GenderQueer #Autistic #Choker #Fangs #CropTop #Twink #NonBinary #Kawaii #Top #RoseBoy #CrossDresser #StuffedAnimal #Paper #Dominant #Trap #Feminine

Ууу!!!
Сегментарная модель для ControlNet в Изе Диффюжине такие правдоподобные генерации выдаёт!.. Даже модель LineArtAnime мне таких не выдала, хоть я и зарендерил 64 картинки с нею.
1. Она лучше распознаёт эмоцию на лице персонажа и правильнее понимает эмоциональное состояние из позитивного запроса!
2. Она даже прирендеривает дополнительный глаз персонажу, если он у него \ неё скрыт!
3. Она отлично прорендеривает фон позади персонажа!
4. она рендерит более чёткие дома и небо!
Не говоря уже о том, что Изя Диффюжен нормально зарисовывает полусферу монотонного цвета на макушке персонажа обычными аниме-волосами...
В общем, всем советую Segment-Модель для ControlNet, ребят!
#ai #neurodivergent #stablediffusion #render #anime #girls #street #summer #2d

Ivonne Fernández y González geboren in #Köln #NRW habe ich gestern bei einem Vortrag https://youtu.be/COHS0UlcQ98 erlebt zum Thema #Autismus und #NeuroDiversität
Unterpunkte:
- #Mobbing
- #Depressionen & #AngstStörungen
- #Arbeitslosigkeit
- #Suizid
- #VerkürzteLebensErwartung
#MentalHealth
#Sozial
#Soziales
#Behinderung
#MensaDeutschland
#IvonneFernándezyGonzález
#Schule
#Arbeit
#Job
#Leben
#Gesundheit
#NeuroDivergent
#BarriereScout
#Beratung
#Coaching
#VierD
As someone with #ADHD, when someone says "just do it! It's not that hard!" I just roll my eyes. Go get a degree in learning disabilities, then talk to me.
What's some "advice" regarding your disability or personality that are just out of touch?
#ADHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergence #ADHDmemes #memes #meme

Do the Care Bear Countdown
And send a wish out through the air
Just do the Care Bear Countdown

I’m finding an increasing number of ND folks also align with sex positive, perverted, kinky, BDSM, and/or fetish ways. I’m wondering what it might be like to have ND gatherings. Hehe
I’m having conversations around the subjects of challenges in flirting and courting with NT folks. Might we have better success if we shared unconventional communication styles?
Stylish femboy is beautiful!
#SweaterShirt #Pose #Stylish #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Top #RoseBoy #Choker #Dominant #Fangs #Autistic #StuffedAnimal #Anime #Fishnets #Femininity #Mask #Tummy #NonBinary #Clothing #CropTop #Masked #CrossDresser #Origami #Kawaii #Trap #Blushing #Teeth #Feminine #Paper #GenderQueer #NeuroDivergent #Submissive #Bisexual #Switch

Femboy moment 35!
#Seizure #Spaz #Wild #Shake #Vibrate #Vibration #Movement #Dance #Fall #SweaterShirt #SFW #Skirt #Bed #Plushy #Femboy #Shaved #Smooth #Cute #Athletic #LongHair #LGBTQ #Trans #Gay #eGirl #eBoy #Breedable #Pride #Sissy #Muscle #Silly #Comfy #Pale #Choker #NeuroDivergent #Paper #Fangs #Mask #Fashion #Kawaii #NonBinary #StuffedAnimal #Blushing #Bottom #GenderQueer #Femininity #RoseBoy #PaleSkin #Submissive #Teeth #Clothing #Bisexual #Autistic #Dominant #CropTop #Twink #Feminine

One of my favorite things about mastodon is the ability to write a note on people's profiles you can update any time and only you see!
Realizing I have a spot to put reminders for myself about a person's pronouns, things they have mentioned that I related to (like if they are disabled), labels/terms they use as self descriptors or specify they do not want to be used to describe them, and any other facts about them or interactions I want to remember is AMAZING.
I made myself a little template early on with some of the info I am most likely to want to know so I can keep it all organized and also note if certain info is NOT shared- because, for example, as a trans person I may feel differently about a post about transphobia based on if it is by a person who has said they are trans (which I put in the note) v a person whose hasn't shared anything related to their gender (so the note has a blank there and they MAY be trans) v someone who has specifically said they are cis.
All you gotta do is go to a person's page, click the three stacked up dots, and click 'add note' and it will show up anytime you go to their page right above their bio!
I don't think I could possibly overstate how helpful it is to know I don’t need to worry about forgetting basic info about a person because I have a note I can check anytime I need to. It’s particularly helpful if you (like me) have any issues with your memory but honestly every human forgets stuff sometimes so I highly recommend it for any and everyone.
editing to add: if someone is an asshole I will also use the note to write something like "this person sucks", "ableist", "this person seemed great but then said X and ewwww" so if I end up encountering them again I get the reminder, which is also super helpful!
:boost_ok: boost if you want to, imo the more people who know about this the better!
#FedTips #OnlineCommunity #Queer #Trans #Nonbinary #ChronicallyIll #Disabled #MentallyIll #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutisitc #Jew #QueerCommunity #DisabilityCommunity #NeurodivergentCommunity #JewishCommunity
Pssst.
I'm gonna continue streaming my playthrough of Horizon Zero Dawn tonight from ~19:30 (BST; UTC+1) 🎮
https://www.twitch.tv/sleepycatten
It'd be cool if you want to join me, but honestly no worries or pressure :TransHeart: :NeurodiversitySymbol:
#streaming #Twitch #queer #trans #transgender #TransWoman #TransFem #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #PCGaming #HorizonZeroDawn
This is why I absolutely LOVE being #ADHD and #Neurodivergent. The leaps my mind makes can be absolutely fascinating in what it connects and where it goes. I need to focus on my daily dose of college work for now, but I wouldn't have my mind work any other way.
Ну, что же? А вот и 3 эпизод. Правда, он слишком хардкорный и уродский получился, но радиация всё равно уродует людей, поэтому долой эстетику!
Больше эпизодов, традиционно, я выкладывать не буду - потом полный клип посмотрите, когда я его закончу и на ПирТюбчик выложу. Ждите, не скоро.
#artspam #anime #stablediffusion #render #ai #neurodivergent #girls #music

It’s so goddamn frustrating that everyone in my life still doesn’t know me nor respect my disabilities, even the ones who appear to ‘understand’ me the most. And many therapists failed me just as much. It’s not fair. Right now I literally have no one who remotely understands me to talk to. I feel so alone emotionally…:blobcatverysad: #autism #audhd #neurodivergent #adhd #mentalhealth
I've ordered a bunch of fidget toys to try out and all of them ended up being rather underwhelming, except for the bicycle chain spinner.
It actually doesn't spin well, but it's pleasantly heavy, silent enough to use during a conversation, and versatile. Can be used with one or two hands, squished with force, there are many different grips and spaces to push fingers into. Also, it's slim and fits into a pocket.
About $6 on AliExpress to keep your fingers happy.

I don't mean to brag, but I was on the winning trivia team at work again.
Always hope you have an old #NeuroDivergent person on your team. They may not the know the recent pop hits, but they’ve spent a long time gathering useless knowledge on things that happened before the year 2000.
NEUROSPICY TRIBE! How do you deal with the change in seasons? I simultaneously love and hate back to school time because I'm not over my depression from the hot weather and lax routine of summer before the chaos and new schedules for the kids cause me panic.
...Also, I'm gonna start using #neurospooky since I painted my nails black and feel all ready for spooky season! :D
#AuDHD #neurospicy #neurodivergent #autism #ADHD
All The Things ADHD is a great podcast by two academics: @Readywriting and Aimée Morrison.
If you're looking for some particularly good places to start, I recommend S5 E8 Neurodivergent college survival tips, S4 E13: What if, wait for it, we didn’t have to fundamentally change who we are to be successful?, and S4 E21: The Sh*t Sandwich.
#AcademicChatter #Disability #HigherEd
#Accessibility #DisabledInHigherEd
#DisabledStudents
#ADHD #Neurodivergent #Autism

Saying mentally disabled people should be treated and viewed as children is like saying women should be treated and viewed as housewives. Similar categorization, based on little to no reason. And it's harmful.
And from my experience, as one of my best secondary school teachers did, kids like when they're not treated like kids. So take note please. I'm autistic, but I am not a child. I know what sex is, I know what drugs are. I know loss.
#ableism #autism #neurodivergent #disability
it's actually rather odd, but I kept hearing from podcasts and other writing advice places that in order to become a Serious Writer, you need to have routine, a schedule, treat writing like a job.
And I'm sure that works well for NT people. But for me, that was the insurmountable barrier. My writing happened in the margins of my life. And it still does (though it happens much more often, of course).
Get yourself ready for #Halloween on #Mastodon this year by using my new icon for #IceCubesApp on #iOS!
It's free to download. Though if you enjoy the app, you should tip @dimillian a few buckaroos for this awesome app! And follow the official account for updates @IceCubesApp
Also includes my new icon based on #neurodiversity!
#ADHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergence #fediverse #apple #iphone

After having spoken with a good number of ND people recently, I now have two things I think* are possible indicators of ND people (whether they know it, or not):
1) hypermobility
2) caffeine self-medication (I’ve heard “caffeine doesn’t keep me awake”/“doesn’t effect me much”/“helps me focus/context-switch/socialise”.)
The second one surprised me, although looking at my own relationship with caffeine it probably shouldn’t have.
*) I am not a doctor, and it doesn’t matter what I think anyway.
#Autism #ADHD #neurodivergent
Fuck. NOVEMBER??

∙ moving here from 🐦 https://twitter.com/Liskni_si
∙ software developer 🧑💻 (passionate about free and open-source software, but sadly in a proprietary/cloud software day job)
∙ live in London (🇬🇧), but Brno (🇨🇿) is my hometown
∙ #Debian #Linux 🐧 on a #ThinkPad 💻, for 18 years and counting (never reinstalled!)
∙ #bash, #Haskell, #Python, #Rust these days (alphabetical order); previously #C, #Elixir, #Erlang, #Perl, #TeX, …
∙ likely #neurodivergent ♾, possibly #ActuallyAutistic (yet to be diagnosed)
∙ love cycling 🚴, both urban (fixed) and sport (road/gravel)
∙ love rollerblading 🛼 even more, mainly urban and endurance, wannabe speed
∙ #metalhead 🤘
∙ #beer 🍺 connoisseur (of course, I am Czech after all)
My #ADHD problem is that I'm too good at entertaining myself, especially with a computer which is also the tool I have to use to do all my work
I released a new #Notion template; a simple planning template, specifically designed for chronically ill, disabled and/or #neurodivergent humans.
It focuses on keeping planning simple with a rolling to-do list in check box form, or a to-do database.
It also includes a symptom tracking.
Plus there’s a gratitude journal to help you remember that not everything is awful (at least not all the time).
It's £9 and available here: https://bushnellcommunitysolutions.com/product/simple-planner-notion-template/
My laptop recently broke... it was an old laptop and I used it for EVERYTHING. I created a Amazon wish list with a laptop and a tablet. If the laptop is too expensive than you can get the tablet.
If someone out there would help me I'll appreciate it SO MUCH. As an autistic adult it is extremely distressing to not have it.
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/dl/invite/fzy93lU?ref_=wl_share
#ActuallyAutistic #LGBTQIA #trans #mentalhealth #queer #Neurodivergent #autistic #lgbt
Yesterday E and I made a dino sensory park with different textures - hours of fun (although a fair bit of sweeping up at the end!)
I particularly enjoyed making Weet Henge
#parenting #HomeEd #HomeEducating #ActuallyAutistic #neurodivergent



Me, way past my bedtime: "I need sleep, I'm exhausted..."
My #ADHD brain: 🎶Chickity China, the Chinese chicken
You have a drumstick and your brain stops tickin'🎶
https://youtu.be/fC_q9KPczAg?si=ALA5OgunrrWjk3h6
#ADHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergence #ADHDmemes #memes #meme
@autisticadvocacy
@actuallyautistic
Accommodation Or Abuse: The False Choice Managers Have With #Neurospicy Employees
Do you want to be a leader or manager who actually works *with* your neurodivergent employees, or do you want to create a hostile, toxic, and *inefficient* work environment because of the fragility of your ego?
#adhd #audhd #autism #business #discrimination #neurodivergent #neurospicy
the idea of my namesake as an autistic dude who has no interest in participating in the absolution of bullies and abusers, who is "grieved unto death" over the loss of a giant plant, who struggled with haShem and is RIGHT ... it makes my name and my identity fit me more than I knew when I first chose them
#yonah #jonah #yomKippur #tanakh #ketuvim #neurodivergent #autistic #neurodivergentJudaism @actuallyautistic @mazeldon
my girlfriend found this, and it's ... indescribable, what this means to me. my Hebrew name is Yonah, bc I felt so drawn to him as a biblical character, and yet I wasn't fully able to put my connection to him into words, until this article
"We know why Jonah runs because the prophet himself tells us at the end of the text. Jonah objects that God spares the Assyrians the consequences of their actions. They have done evil and they do not deserve to retain their status as the capital of the Assyrian Empire. Jonah is not particularly impressed with the fasting and the public repentance; but he knows that God finds such behavior acceptable and averts their doom. If Jonah knows that there will be no real change and that Nineveh’s might and cruelty will ride roughshod over his people, why should he prophecize to them? Why do they not deserve justice?"
#yonah #jonah #yomKippur #tanakh #ketuvim #neurodivergent #autistic #neurodivergentJudaism @actuallyautistic @mazeldon
https://www.yeshivatmaharat.org/post/finding-justice-in-jonah
I can tell when the meds have worn off b/c I start making up songs for my cats.
I’m writing some real bangers, such as
“You’re Just a Sweet Lil’ Loaf of Bread”
and
“Do You Have To Sniff Your Brother’s Butt?”
#ADHD #IsItABanger #ADHDMusicians #MusiciansCats #NeuroDivergent #Cats #MusicForCats #ComposingForCats
I appear to have become particularly skilled at completing tasks just late enough to cause serious concern that I won't complete them on time.
And that's why I'm just getting to bed at 1:30am.
#ADHD #ExecutiveDysfunction #neurodivergent
Regarding "conflict" as an element of the human social world, and the prevailing modern taste for it, even the praising of it:
All I have to do is read the daily news to see how many people there are in the world, most of whom are #neurotypical persons, who seem to like conflict.
Just read the headlines of any news journal.
Just look at what we're doing to the planet.
Just look at what humans do to other humans.
So, conflict is typical.
I'm #neurodivergent
Not typical.
Give me a quiet, peaceful #green forest, next to a flowing stream, alone or with a friend, just walking, not struggling, just strolling. #peace
Others may differ.
Oh, that doesn't mean I won't fight back when people come at me. It doesn't mean I won't defend myself.
That doesn't mean you want to deal with me once you provoke me past a certain point.
But that's not what I want for my life. I want to get my pulse rate to a calm state. I want to have a healthy life. I want to calm the agitation. I want to get my amygdala to relax.
Because I have a very reactive @actuallyautistic amygdala... and I see everything, feel everything.
Thanks for reading.
One difference I see between mastodon and twitter:
On twitter the autistic community is very large, and issues regarding such things as hashtags, acceptance of self-assessment, etc, have been substantially worked out a long time ago. There are some disagreements that arise from time to time, but on these core ideas it's just a few individuals who oppose acceptance of self-assessment.
The concepts associated with the neurodiversity paradigm are widely supported.
My own dislike of twitter was (and is) mostly centered around the silo effect of Twitter structure. There are influencer accounts that dominate discussions, towering over the crowd like big vertical silos, and most significant discussions that get any real notice occur within those silos. It's really hierarchical, and vertical rather than horizontal. I've written threads there which discuss this and while there were a lot of supportive people who agreed with me, some didn't, and a few of the huge influencer accounts took a disliking to me. Names some of you would be familiar with.
Yep, that really happened.
Seems most autistics there don't mind that top-down structure, which is why they stay there, I guess.
It is a much bigger world there, that is true.
I really like the relative degree of absence of that verticality here on Mastodon.
@actuallyautistic
#actuallyautistic
#neurodivergent
@allautistics
Pete Wharmby has recently restarted his series of one-take talks on autism, and the latest, on neuronormative expectations in job interviews, is very good: https://youtube.com/watch?v=0_5Grf81qdE
The 12-minute talk addresses three key problems faced by Autistic interviewees in particular:
1. The unknown
2. Social expectations
3. Unexpected task switching
All these problems can be mitigated with a few minor adjustments
#employment #recruitment #interview #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #neurodiversity
I know I shouldn’t be nervous but I am. Son is attending birthday, and they’ll be playing laser tag. But parents are DROPPING OFF their kids, which is something very unusual for those of us with #neurodivergent kiddos! I suggested and then all parent left phone numbers juuust in case.
It seems like a simple milestone but I’m actually anxious about it. Probably more than him!
#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #ParentingWhileAutistic #AutisticParenting @actuallyautistic
A poll for my #ADHD, #ActuallyAutistic, and/or other #neurodivergent comrades (please boost :boostRequest: to increase responses)
Interesting though slightly fluffy piece. I 🙄when the writer said it was "virtually unknown" when they actually meant, science hadn't yet verified it because they are the arbiters of truth. 😒
#Misophonia: what’s behind the phenomenon that makes certain sounds unbearable?
@actuallyautistic #NeuroDivergent https://www.theguardian.com/science/2023/sep/17/misophonia-phenomenon-sounds-unbearable-new-book-dr-jane-gregory
Thinking of moving instances cus I feel like ... unfortunately froggie.town almost never produce any #search results. Any #neurodivergent, #queer, #sex-positive related/welcoming, #misskey instances that produce search results that include #mastodon posts?
#AskFedi
Not exclusive to #ADHD but definitely relatable...😬
#ADHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergence #ADHDmemes #memes #meme
@Gtmlosangeles @yourautisticlife @actuallyautistic
Not only that, but some of us are multiply neurodivergent. So there are different hashtags for each neurodivergent category we may experience.
#ActuallyAdhd to give one example.
#neurodiversity #neurodivergent
And there are groups:
Librarians and #neurodivergent patrons sue after creepy, bigoted right-wing freaks in Kansas (hi Ruth Splitter, you're famous!) fire librarians for displaying a pro-#neurodiversity symbol that they confused with an #LGBTQ+ rainbow. https://news.yahoo.com/kansas-town-axed-librarians-confusing-162943798.html
Conversations about autistic masking and unmasking always centre white experiences. Black autistics have a VERY different relationship to masking, with much higher stakes.
White autistics need to remember that.
#antiBlackness #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergence
Every self-help book: To achieve your goals, simply break the goals down into smaller tasks and then work on those tasks.
#Neurodivergent people: But what goals should you have? What if your goals keep changing? And how do you actually force yourself to work on the tasks? What is even the purpose of anything?
Me trying to do anything without my meds...
#ADHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergence #ADHDmemes #memes #meme
🌈 Hey #ActuallyAutistic fam!
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I get it. That's why I offer all my content for FREE. But to keep it that way, I need your #help.
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#AutisticJoy #ADHD #AuDHD
@actuallyautistic
@actuallyadhd
I shall be doing my first stream in over half a year (!!!) on Twitch from ~19:30 tonight (BST; UTC+1) 🎮
I'll be finally playing Horizon Zero Dawn, which has been on my Steam backlog for a while.
https://www.twitch.tv/sleepycatten
I hope you'll join me, but no worries or pressure if you can't or don't want to :TransHeart:
#streaming #Twitch #queer #trans #transgender #TransWoman #TransFem #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #PCGaming #HorizonZeroDawn
Aan het broeden op een kleine introductie voor de nieuwe vriendjes hier, maar ik ben echt te chaotisch om een beetje samenhangend te kunnen vertellen wie ik ben. Ik serveer jullie daarom een hashtagsoepje:
#TeamFriet
#HetZijnKruidnoten
#TeamAlledaags
#IkDoeMaarWat #EnSomsLuktDat
#LongCovid
#POTS
#migraine
#neurodivergent
#boardgames
#puzzles
#sudoku
#crochet
En iets met #Groen. Ik houd van groen, ik speel met groen, ik woon in het Groene Hart. Geitenwollen plantjesknuffelaar.
What game from my Steam games backlog should I start playing this coming Tuesday to mark my return to #streaming?
#Twitch #queer #trans #transgender #TransWoman #TransFem #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #spoonie
A #Neurodivergent tip from my own experience...
Struggling to focus on or process a piece of media? Don't forget to try other formats. Maybe play the video at faster or slower speed. Maybe an e-book is easier to be on hand when focus hits than a paper book. Maybe having the AI voice read the e-book to you is more accessible to you. Try inverse colors.
Try turning off the video portion of a video and just listening to the audio.
Never be reluctant to try other options or formats.
Oh my gosh! This is just TOO perfect :FaceHoldingBackTears:
They issued my GRC on the same day as my & my wife's double anniversary of our 1st date & marriage 🥰 :TransHeart:
I can now FINALLY get my birth certificate & our marriage licence updated 😁
LET'S GOOOOOOOOOO!!!
#GRC #GRP #transition #trans #transgender #TransWoman #TransFem #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #NeuroQueer #neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD