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#SlowCatIntro

#TabbyCat #Stebie & #TuxieGirl #Betty
๐Ÿ’ฅTogether๐Ÿ’ฅ sharing space. ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฏ #CatsOfMastodon While the #SlowCatIntro is most likely over, the journey continues as they learn to share space. Hopefully, if they can't be the perfect Best Buds I hoped for, they can coexist peacefully. โ˜ฎ๏ธโœŒ๏ธ

A TabbyCat sleeping in the dog's bed while 3 ft away newcomer Betty sits with her back to him next to Cat Mom staff on the sofa. Both finally got their calming meds.

#TabbyCat ๐Ÿˆ#Stevie & #TuxieGirl ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›#Betty experienced a
๐Ÿ’ฅMAJOR BREAK THROUGH๐Ÿ’ฅ today & are sharing space today for the 1st time without barriers or injuries! ๐Ÿ˜ธOur family would like to THANK ALL our #CatsOfMastodon frenses for helping us get
TOGETHER during this #SlowCatIntro.The journey continues we will post photos. We love you all!

Tabby Cat Stevie enjoying an after lunch nap in his Catio Kitty Kubby.
TuxieGirl Betty inside the swinging tunnel out on the Catio.

We've had a major break through on this EXHAUSTING #SlowCatIntro. #TabbyCat #Stevie & ๐Ÿˆ#TuxieGirl #Betty ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› have been FINALLY sharing the open space of the house w/out a barrier. Betty did VERY well, Stevie was understandably hissy and low level growly, but NO BLOOD & NO CHASING! ๐Ÿ˜ธ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ #CatsOfMastodon. No photos cuz staff needed both hands to keep them safe. #Catio flap will remain open in both directions except at night.

#Caturday #TuxieCat #Betty I'm pooped out! Lots of sessions today for me and #TabbyCat #Stevie learning to live without barriers. Stevie got to be inside the big carrier while, I hunted for treats on the #Cat #GymWall He growled at me as I ran past him, but I didn't react. We worked ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›๐Ÿˆtogether for about 8 minutes. Afterwards, we got ham treats, in our separate rooms.#SlowCatIntro #CatsOfMastodon

Betty, looking exhausted after her clicker training/desensitization sessions w/ her housemate Stevie. She sits on the lounging platform of the Catio on a bright summer day.

#TuxieGirl #Betty ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› STILL doing #SlowCatIntro heading in to Week 13 ๐Ÿ˜ผStaff is very fed up with this process. Last night's desensitization session in my carrier in the bedroom w/ #TabbyCat #Stevie & dad was... unfair. Why #Stevie gotta be all over sensitive n stuff? He hissed at me! THEN, Stevie got๐Ÿ–ham! Mom says, "Late night food riles you up" . WTDuck!? ๐Ÿฆ† So I got hugs โค๏ธ#CatsOfMastodon

TuxieGirl Betty in her large carrier that we're using as part of the slow cat intro (13 weeks at this point ๐Ÿ˜ฑ) program plan . She sits on a handmade pink daisy blanket.

#SlowCatIntro going on week 13. Humans are definitely fatigued. Last night's bedroom desensitization session went fairly well. #TuxieGirl #Betty๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›was pretty calm. I only hissed a little bit. After a few minutes dad took her away, and I got ham treats! ๐Ÿ˜ป Later we'll do the same on the #Catio. We're both taking calming drops. One week of this & then it's on to reopening the Catio cat flap to facilitate free range capability... ๐Ÿคž#CatsOfMastodon #TabbyCat #Stevie

Tabby Cat Stevie guarding Cat mom's flip flops.
TuxieGirl Betty inside her large carrier that we're using as an intro aid to get her and Stevie to share space together peacefully.

Tonight it seems cat mom staff says it's time for me to learn that #Betty will indeed be allowed to come into the bedroom at night. Even with me sleeping next to dad. Even if I don't like it. Tonight #Betty n me will be occupying space in the bedroom together. She'll be in her carrier, while dad explains that this is gonna be " fun". One big happy family, right. Hmph. At least there will be ham. #SlowCatIntro #TabbyCat #Stevie #CatsOfMastodon

#TabbyCat #Stevie relaxing on his lounging platform in the Catio. Small bonus blep.

#Caturday #SlowCatIntro
#TabbyTude #TabbyCat #Stevie Yeah, maybe NOT! ๐Ÿ˜ธ *sigh* #TuxieGirl #Betty Please comment below if you have thoughts about how this is going...

We're all gonna get along without barriers...

#TabbyCat ๐Ÿˆ#Stevie & #TuxieGirl
#Betty ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›participating in a "I'll show you I can be trusted" session for the first time together in their #Catio. Went pretty well. Stevie gave her a low level warning growl while she remained calm. Session was about 10 minutes. Success feels good. ๐Ÿ˜บ๐Ÿ˜บ#SlowCatIntro Feels like Week 100 ๐Ÿ˜ฑ #CatsOfMastodon

About 3.5 ft. apart, maybe. #TabbyCat #Stevie & #TuxieGirl #Betty participating in a "you can trust me" session on the Catio.
Stevie looking pretty relaxed with Betty just a few feet away in her carrier.
Betty remaining pretty calm with Stevie just a few feet away.

The #Heat Wave in the Midwest continues all week. Too hot for cats to be outside all day so conditions are mimicking winter conditions in that these 2 frenemies are going to be together inside for at least 12 hours. Pressure to establish mutual trust is increasing. *SIGH* This #SlowCatIntro is wearing us down. #TuxieGirl #Betty #TabbyCat #Stevie #CatsOfMastodon

TuxieGirl Betty enjoying her Catio next to her ladybug bed.
#TabbyCat #Stevie perhaps dreaming of days past when he was the only cat in the house ๐Ÿ˜”

#SlowCatIntro Week 12 ๐Ÿ™„ Mom staff put me in my carrier after breakfast out the open area of the house. Stevie was up high. He he jumped down to my level,
S L O W L Y walked within 2 1/2 feet of me, gave some warning growls & hisses."This is my house. behave n mind your manners!" Then he S L O W L Y walked away toward the Catio door, Not much fluff, and picking up his legs as he went. I was quiet.Thoughts? Successful encounter? #CatsOfMastodon #StevieTheCat #TuxieGirl #Betty

TuxieGirl Betty wondering if Stevie will ever accept that he needs to do things her way so they can co-exist. She's out in her Catio next to a yellow ladybug cat bed.
Stevie the Tabby Cat wondering if Betty is ever going to be respectful and mind her manners so they can co-exist without barriers.

#Today at lunch #Betty came to the screen door to my room. She was looking at me. Sitting all loaf ๐Ÿž like n stuff, but lookin' at me. I gave her a low growl and a good hiss. She still sat there. In fact she slowly put a paw on the screen. So I growled even louder and hissed again. She very slowly slunk away. I think she got my message ๐Ÿ˜ผ. #CatsOfMastodon #SlowCatIntro #StevieTheCat

#TabbyCat #Stevie thinking deep thoughts out on the #Catio. Also in frame is his new cat bed cover of red lady bugs on yellow fabric and a yellow zinnia bloom.

Week freaking TEN of #SlowCatIntro for #TuxieGirl #Betty. This is day 3 of sessions at the screen door. Zero reaction from Betty, an acceptable low level of growling n hissing from Stevie beyond the door. He's up on the bed watching. This is post play n treat sessions. When 2 humans are home we work both cats at the same time. But alone, I can only do one cat at a time. #CatsOfMastodon #Stevie and #Betty

Betty looks toward her mom after a successful session with Stevie beyond the screen door. Looks pretty relaxed. No hissing from the other side either ๐Ÿคž
Betty having a look at Stevie beyond the screen.

According to Cats.com Tuxies have ..."been known to get along well with other pets" . Ummm, NO! Not OUR #Betty! We are heading into week 10 of her #SlowCatIntro and while there has been progress, it's been at less than a snail's pace! She accepted me, but is still struggling to recognize Stevie as a fren. And we're ALL so fatigued and exhausted by this process. #DaisyDoo #SlowCatIntro

Daisy in spring garden with red flowers.
Betty the Tuxie

After a treat, play, clicker training, viewing session with #Betty, I'm kinda tired. She got a little rude at the screen door and threw herself a bit hard, so I gave her a GOOD hissing off! But I held my position ๐Ÿ˜ผand didn't run away or hide. Mom gave me ham! ๐Ÿ˜ปSaid I was a brave boi. ๐Ÿˆ#SundayScreamies #SlowCatIntro #TabbyTude
#CatsOfMastodon๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›๐Ÿˆ

#StevieTheCat grooming himself after a play n treat session at the screen door with new cat Betty.

#SlowCatIntro The new temporary screen door has been installed for #Stevie, with #Betty on the other side. After testing for strength, clicker training, treats for being calm, and play opportunities were offered for both. First attempt went very well. Did 3 one min sessions. Then both cats rested a bit before Betty walked away & went to her sanctuary room while Stevie roamed the house. #CatsOfMastodon #Stevie #Betty

Betty tries to get to the treats behind the screen and tests the new door for strength. It works!

#Caturday My #CatdDaddy switched the temp door out for a VERY strong screen. This is a test run. LickiMat with Churu on it to see if I can pop the door open... Nope. Now Stevie can be on the inside getting a *Click* + a ham treat from dad, I will get the same from mom on the other side. Plus toys. But I'm not really into toys. ๐Ÿคž
#TuxieGirl #Betty #SlowCatIntro

#TuxieGirl #Betty at the screen door and a Churu LickiMat lure to test the strength of the barrier.

On this #Caturday as we begin our TENTH WEEK of cat intro, dad butler is doing more DIY & switching the temporary door from the hall to Stevie's so called sanctuary room. Staff hopes to increase the exposure of #Stevie n #Betty with this screen barrier and counter conditioning with high value ham treats n play opportunities. ๐ŸคžMay the gods and The Force be with us. #SlowCatIntro #CatsOfMastod #TuxedoCat #TabbyCat

A Classic Tabby cat Stevie in his hand made cat bed of orange, gold, black n green.
A Tuxedo Girl cat, Betty lounging on the warm Catio cement.

#Sunday Dad, why are you carrying that intruder #Betty into my living room? #Cats #TabbyTude #CatsOfMastodon #SlowCatIntro

Classic Tabby cat Stevie sitting in his bed on an end table against a retro shade of orange wall, watching his dad carry his new housemate Betty into the room for a very short exposure.

I see you Stevie! I'm ready to meet you. I know I can be kinda EXTRA but I'll learn from you. โ™ฅ๏ธ #TuxieGirl #Betty #Caturday #SlowCatIntro

Betty looking for Stevie. She's calmed down quite a bit since her arrival 9 weeks ago.

#SlowCatIntro #Stevie & #Betty Stevie can't smell #Betty outside the window, and Betty can't see or smell him. He seems fine until she starts pawing the window. He reacts the same way at the indoor Plexi Sniff N See window. Thoughts about how this may or may not help bring them together? #CatsOfMastodon #Cats #StevieTheCat #TuxieGirl #Betty

Stevie reacts to new housemate Betty outside the window

Stevie! I see you โค๏ธ๐Ÿˆout there! I'm ready to meet you. I know I was mean to you when I first arrived 9 weeks ago, but I want to learn to share space now. โ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› #SlowCatIntro #TuxieGirl #Betty #CatsOfMastodon #Cats #TuxedoCat

Tuxedo Girl cat Betty navigating the Catified space & looking out the window att resident cat Stevie. He's not as enthused having been previously chased, hissed at and swatted by her.

Week 8 #SlowCatIntro #Betty is on my #Catio ๐Ÿ˜  NOT happy about it. Even though mom butler gives me ham treats when I see her at the window. I hiss at her. #StevieTheCat #CatsOfMastodon

#ClassicTabby cat Stevie hissing at his new housemate #Betty outside the window on the Catio. This is the middle of week 8 of their intro process. She attacked at the beginning of the process during an escape, so his response is more than understandable. Hoping to get them together in the same space by winter cuz' this separation shuffling is getting difficult to maintain.

#SlowCatIntro Week 8 The view blocker to the #Catio is coming down. I can see Stevie playing and when it's my turn for Catio time he'll get able to see me. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ Hopefully there will be no fluffage, hissing, or flat ears... #CatsOfMastodon

I see you Stevie!

Quiet far away thoughts on my #Catio. Time to relax. Time to smell the catnip in the garden. Time to stalk squirrels ๐Ÿฟ๏ธ, bugs, birds... and plot the destruction of #TuxieGirl #Betty ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› who I can smell was just up here. ๐Ÿ˜พ#SlowCatIntro end of week 7. #Cats #CatsTodon #Stevie #CatsOfMastodon

A Classic Tabby cat lying on the top of his Catio lounging platform, plotting.

I was super restrained and measured tonight at the Sniff N See window for dinner tonight. I only hissed once at #TuxieGirl #Betty while she ate her food. But I don't like to hang out after I'm finished eating. She just screams at the window for more food and paws it trying to get out. Why can't she just chill? #SlowCatIntro #TabbyCat #Stevie #CatsOfMastodon #CatsTodon

Tabby cat #Stevie napping in his green and white polka dot fleece bed out in the Catio.
The Sniff N See window we use for counter conditioning our cats #Stevie and #Betty

Two meals #Today at the Sniff N See window without incident. Although I did give one low growl at #Betty who was yelling at the window for more food. #ClassicTabby #Stevie #SlowCatIntro#CatsOfMastodon

Classic Tabby #Stevie lying on the cement Catio floor near some pink flowers.

We had a successful first session at the Sniff N See window! Dad sat with me in the hall with the "curtain" raised just a smidge and gave me a squeeze up treat, while Betty n mom did the same on the other side of the window so there was about 10 feet between us. I saw her n gave her a curt hiss to remind her to BE NICE! No other drama. Then dad played with me n Betty went to the Catio. ๐Ÿ˜ธ Yay! I won! #SlowCatIntro #StevieTheCat #ClassicTabby #CatsTodon #CatsOfMastodon #Sunday

The Sniff N See window has been installed and the next step in the #SlowCatIntro begins here at #OurHouse. It's the begining of week 7. #Betty is an adorable bundle but she packs a good punch. The furry of her disdainful disapproval of me crushed and broke my heart ๐Ÿ˜ฟ๐Ÿ’” when she chased n swatted me several weeks ago. We're ALL taking calming drops as we embark on this mission. #StevieTheCat #CatsTodon #Sunday #CatsOfMastodon

#StevieTheCat sitting on a slipper chair.
A Plexi glass window with perforations to allow visual and scent contact between two cats while maintaining physical safety.
#TuxieGirl #Betty sits on a shelf near the recently installed Sniff N See window that will facilitate her next step to meeting resident cat Stevie. In the past she hasn't shown any warmth toward him at all. Very chilly and indeed downright hostile in fact.

"Do you still hear the lambs screaming, Clarice"? #Caturday #SlowCatIntro Week 7 #CatsTodon #Catify #CatsOfMastodon #TuxiGirl #Betty

#TuxieGirl #Betty is mad at being excluded by the Plexi Sniff N See door that will help move the cats along in the next step of the slow intro process.

It's #Caturday and DIY #CatDaddy is in full work mode installing the new temporary
See N Sniff door that will facilitate our next step of the #SlowCatIntro for #TuxieGirl #Betty #CatsTodon #Catting #CatsOfMastodon #Catification

New cat #TuxiGirl #Betty supervising the installation of the new Sniff N See Plexi hall door. There are perforations in the Plexi to allow scent as well as visual contact between the cats.
#ClassicTabby cat #Stevie giving advice for the installation of the Sniff N See door

I visited the #Catio again #Today! The cars were still kinda freaky, but they weren't interested in eating me. I saw two cats across the street, some birds at the feeder, heard a Weed Whacker, saw our neighbor on her porch, and heard human neophytes screaming down the street. I'm much better than they are at screaming! ๐Ÿ˜น #CatioLife #SlowCatIntro moving into week 7 #Cats #CatsTodon #Catting #CatsOfMastodon #TuxieGirl #Betty ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›

#TuxieGirl #Betty getting familiar with the Catio.

I'm kinda worried #Today. We are in week 6 of Betty's #SlowCatIntro & we are both a bit food aggressive. Our 'Dinner at the Door' step is a hot mess n escalating. We can't get closer than 10 feet of the door without getting completely overwhelmed with anxiety & aggression. We're never going to eat together n staff is fine with that. But how to proceed to the next level of visual/scent meeting of the process? Can we? Should we? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ Please comment w/ your ideas below.

Stevie, the Classic Tabby cat sitting on a slipper chair

#ThrowbackThursday A little over a month ago at the shelter, my butler staff were picking me up to take me to my new #ForEverHome โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜บโ™ฅ๏ธ. I've learned SO many things since then. It's been a challenge for us all, but I'm doing the very best I can to learn to be a good citizen in my new home. I still have a challenging journey ahead, but I have support n love. #TuxieGirl #Betty #AdoptDontShop #SlowCatIntro #TuxiTude #CatsTodon #CatsOfMastodon #Cats

Adoption Day for our #Betty. Here she is at the shelter in her bed enclosure. Chirping away. We got you Betty.  You're going to have a good life.

#SlowCatIntro idea ๐Ÿ˜บ. Window with reinforced screening #LickiMat n squeeze up treat. ##TuxiGirl #Betty #StevieTheCat #CatsOfMastodon #CounterConditioning ๐Ÿˆ Yes, this is better than her tearing up the shade/window coverings.

#Betty using a LickiMatt to self soothe herself while viewing resident cat through window. Later the window will be raised a bit to allow for her to smell him. This was a first attempt to see if the duct tape would hold up.

Week 4 of my #SlowCatIntro has begun. Still in stage 1 site & scent swapping, no eye/physical contact between me/Stevie. I've learned MANY things! ๐Ÿ˜ธ I can sit on my shelf without door dashing near the kitchen; I can safely share my sanctuary room & the floor space with Daisy the dog without harassing her; I can use all the house#Catification except the #Catio; I can safely use the house space at night while Stevie is outside. Love my new โ™ฅ๏ธForEver Home. #TuxieTude #CatsOfMastodon๐Ÿ˜ป #Caturday

Betty the Tuxie girl sitting on the bottom half of the Gym Wall currently in progress. The wall is yellow.

#SlowCatIntro Week 3 Update. I'm working with mom.๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›I'm #ClickerTraining her to learn some manners and self control. Here, I'm demonstrating how to sit on a chair, then jump to the counter, then back to the chair, down to the floor, and back up to the chair. She's kinda slow ๐Ÿ˜ผ #BettyTheTuxi

Betty, a cute Tuxie girl sits on a chair to demonstrate how to sit properly for a good reward. She's in her sanctuary room.

#SlowCatIntro
Week 3 Update suffered another setback tonight when Stevie escaped into the house from his Catio. Devastated ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ข at the ensuing mayhem, screaming, & chasing. No physical injuries but clearly my boi (resident cat) was traumatized. He seemed to recover with support from his dad. #TabbyCat #TuxieCat #CatsOfMastodon

Stevie recovering from a surprise attack ๐Ÿ˜ฟ from innocent looking Tuxie Girl Betty
Sweet, affectionate, chirpy tiny Tuxie Thug Betty.

Just heard about #NipFest. Mom is harvesting one pot of #catnip #Today. #SlowCatIntro Day 14 Update
I was attracted to it right away, rolled in it, and rubbed my head with it. #CatsOfMastodon

A Tuxie girl playing with some fresh catnip
Tuxie Girl Betty having some fresh catnip near her playbox. No idea how it will affect her.

#SlowCatIntro Day13 Update: I hate the dog less. Hate that she walks around. Hate that she barks. Hate that she gets up onto her window seat too. Why she gotta be like that? #TuxieTude #CatsOfMastodon

Tuxie Girl Betty in her bed in her sanctuary room.

Betty's reaction to seeing another cat on YouTube #CatTV #AdoptDontShop #TuxieTude #CatsOfMastodon #SlowCatIntro

Newly adopted Betty reacts to seeing another cat on YouTube CatTV channel. She is sitting on a tall dresser against a yellow wall.

#TuxieGirl
Day 4 Update. I took my Mousie up the climber. Love this thing! ๐Ÿ˜บStill trying to decide if I should sleep in Stevie's bed up on top of the China cabinet. #CatsOfMastodon #SlowCatIntro

Tuxie Girl cat Betty messing with her new mouse toy on the climber.