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#affection

Your Autistic Life
3 weeks ago

If you recall, I mentioned matching with an autistic girl a while back. She's still in my matches.

Our initial chat was delightful. One afternoon she disappeared, but she came back apologizing that she felt too depressed at that time. We chatted some more. It was still delightful.

And then she disappeared from the chat. It's been over two months now.

Note that we are still matched. If she did not *want* me, unmatching would be trivial to do.

Also, she did come back to the platform. I know because I pay for service and this allows me to see when people come onto the platform.

What happened?

I think she went back into a depressive episode or some other stuff happened in her life that made her unable right now to enter into a relationship with me. I think the one time she came back to the platform was to see if I had unmatched her.

I can think of other scenarios, but they all seem implausible to me. If she did not want me after all, she would have unmatched. Again, this is the easiest thing.

I don't think she uninstalled the app. If she had, our chat would say that she's "taking a break from the app."

I don't think she's dead. (Yes, my mind can go into pretty dark places.) If she were, her profile would be deleted, or it would say like above that "she's taking a break."

So I'm being patient. Note that if I were not polyamorous, none of this would have happened. I would just not have matched with her because I had a girlfriend already at the time.

I wish I could wrap her in a blanket of comfort and affection, because I think she needs it badly.

I just hope she comes back to me when she feels better.

☹️

#dating #polyamory #comfort #affection #depression #ActuallyAutistic

Blurple Mush Toppin
1 month ago

Slimy Affection! (i could have posted this yesterday but i was sleepy)
#pixelart #slime #affection

Feeling extremely gay. 🌈

Wanna smooch enbies. 💙

And maybe cuddle them... 😻

And...

Maybe...

Hold paws?? *Blush blush blush* 🐾

#Nonbinary #lgbtqia #cute #affection #love #furry

If you are #trans and you would like a headpat, here you go!

*gently pats the top of your head* You are gorgeous, witty and all-around awesome. Have a great day, my trans sibling!! 💙💙💙

#transgender #affection #FreeHugs #furry #dragon

WordofTheHour
3 months ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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Dora Hathazi Mendes
4 months ago

Work in Progress image about my new watercolor painting titled Affection about Suzy and beloved Mushu who recently crossed the Rainbow Bridge 🐾🎨🌈
Thank you so much dear Bill for your custom order and for supporting my art 🌺🎨👩‍🎨
Dora
:artpaw:
Find the ready artwork in my Cat Paintings Collection at
https://dora-hathazimendes.pixels.com/collections/cat+paintings

#MastoArt #artist #cat #cats #catart #catpaintings #affection #love #catlove #watercolor #art #Paintings #petportrait #watercolour #catsofmasto #catsofmastodon

Watercolor cat painting by Dora Hathazi Mendes.  Art prints available
:velvetahegao: Vorepone
4 months ago

#nsfw #mlp #pony #vore #art by M87drag:

https://www.furaffinity.net/view/52189399/

#affection #blue_eyes #anal_vore #gallus #sex_toy #love #raised_tail #fetish #sexy #vore

Note: Everyone was evacuated before Gallus started to have his fun.

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When Gallus thinks about Smolder, he really feels the magic of friendship in his heart. When he rests under the Crystal Castle, he thinks, the Crystal Heart is such a beautiful sight to see. One day, the Crystal Heart shine...

WIST Quotations
4 months ago

A quotation from Thomas a Kempis:

«««««
The wise lover does not consider so much the lover’s gift, as the giver’s love. He pays more attention to the giver’s affection than to the gift’s value, and he places less value on all gifts than he does on the beloved.
»»»»»

Full quote, sourcing, notes:
https://wist.info/thomas-a-kempis/3838/

#quote #quotes #quotation #affection #gift #giftsfromGod #lover #value #giving #receiving #love #worth

Pipples the Puppy
5 months ago

🐶 Woof woof! 🐾 Lick hooman face! 😋 Show love, make happy. ❤️ #PuppyKisses #Affection

Gryph the Gryphon
6 months ago

the Gryphons r the rly affectionate creatures . esp towards Gryph the Gryphon ^V^

#affection

David Milley
6 months ago

Exterminating Angel Press published their spring issue this week: "Recipes for Disaster." They've included my little #reminiscence about my late Mom's -- er -- unusual approach to the culinary arts. It's called "Special."

https://exterminatingangel.com/special/

#VerseThursday #poetry #poem #poetrycommunity #community #writing #food #cooking #cuisine #motherhood #MothersDay #coffee #turkey #family #memory #nostalgia #affection #irony

Liz
6 months ago

The feminine urge to tell someone you love them and hug them until they squeak. 💜 #hugs #love #affection

WIST Quotations
7 months ago

A quotation from Martial:

«««««
I wanted to love you: you prefer
To have me as your courtier.
Well, I must follow your direction.
But goodbye, Sextus, to affection.
[Vis te, Sexte, coli: volebam amare.
Parendum est tibi: quod iubes, coleris:
Sed si te colo, Sexte, non amabo.]
»»»»»

Full quote, sourcing, notes:
https://wist.info/martial/59430/

#quote #quotes #quotation #affection #courtesy #deference #love #relationship #respect

Bruce Nault II
7 months ago

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." - Buddha

#quote #inspiration #buddha #love #affection #mindset #coaching

WordofTheHour
7 months ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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Hebrew by Inbal
8 months ago

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#hebrewbyinbal #mylove #mydear #love #dear #hebrew #jewish #languagelesson #valentinesday #valentine #happyvalentinesday #fyp #myloves #affection #sweetheart #Fediverse #Mastodon #mazeldon #jewdiverse

peachfront
8 months ago

I wanted to sit in my chair but it was already in use.

#LoveIsReal #birds #PetBirds #lovebird #cockatiel #cute #affection #RescueBirds

A Dutch blue mutation Peach-faced Lovebird is preening a white-faced mutation male Cockatiel. Photo of my long-time rescue birds by Peachfront.
Helen H
9 months ago

Love Is All You Need … doesn’t that say it all? Love is the universal language of the heart and after all is said and done, the love and kindness we extend to one another is probably the most important thing we’ll ever do in this life. The love we give is the love we get. It’s HERE: https://hhphotography.pixels.com/featured/love-is-hh-photography-of-florida.html

#love #romance #affection #emotion #ValentinesDay #valentine #amour #art #FediArt #artists #mastoart #mastadonartists #ArtMatters #AYearForArt

Large black letters spelling love with the words “is all you need” on the inside of the letter O, is seen on a vertical textured background in colors of orange blue and cream.  Love is the universal language of the heart and after all is said and done, the love and kindness we extend to  one another is probably the most important thing we’ll ever do in this life.  The love we give is the love we get.  #love #romance #affection #emotion #ValentinesDay #valentine #amour #art #FediArt #artists #mastoart #mastadonartists #ArtMatters #AYearForArt
James Stanford 🇭🇲 🛴 🖖
9 months ago

Was at the local Christmas community lunch with my wife and mum. My mum said to me "it's so good to see you [meaning my wife and I] all lovey dovey". A bit later I asked her what she meant by "lovey dovey", and she said the way we interact and show affection towards each other, and talk to each other, in public was very refreshing and not something she sees very often.

I thought to myself "we're really just doing what we always do".

I guess after 28 years of being married we have cultivated an affection towards each other that is now very natural to us and we don't even realise we are doing it.

I suspect the fact we treat each other as equals with neither of us being a 'ruler' over the other, that we share in the household duties as well as the income earning, could also help.

#marriages #affection #love

Sharad Mohan
9 months ago

Were you hugged (appropriately) as a child?
#hugs #love #affection #appreciation #confirmation #family #agape #resilience

Bee
10 months ago

Death is so ever present and so, like, not there at all. That 'out of sight' thing except there's no way to reconnect.

I dreamt I saw my Grandpa and gave him a "I see you all the time" hug.

But after it ended, my brain was like - Ah no, that's not the right hug. So then I gave a big hug- the kind where you squeeze so hard the person's body squishes.

I woke up and cried. It felt real. Gpa's gone again. But the feeling & memory stay.

#affection #death #dream #adhd

yes I am a hopeless romantic who swoons over the slightest gesture of affection yes I am also a horny slut who loves casual sex we exist

#hornyposting #hornypost #hopelessromantic #love #affection #romance #romanticgestures #relationship #relationships #sex #casualsex #fucking #hookup #hookups #hookingup #slut #reclaimedslur #reclaimedslurs #reclaimingslurs

The documentary series “Welcome to Wrexham” is a gem. It’s about the Wales football club that Ryan Reynolds and Rob McElhenney bought.

The episode “Wromance” analyzes Ryan/Rob’s relationship. It features Liz Plank, author of “For the Love of Men.” She notes how sports creates a “safe place for men to love each other and to relate to each other.” I found it to be edifying and moving.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt22174958/

#Soccer #Football #Wrexham #Wales #Documentary #Affection #Masculinity #Love

Two England football players (Harry Kane and Marcus Rashford) hugging on the ground in celebration, wearing their red kits. Quote by Liz Plank overlaid that reads “Sports becomes this safe place for men to love each other and to relate to each other, not just emotionally but physically. I find it fascinating watching men on a football field touching each other and being very affectionate, being very physically close with one another. Do men get close with each other because they love sports? Or do men do sports because they want to be close to each other?”

We deserve a society where LGBTQ+ people can hold hands with their partner (or partners) without fear and with only pure joy and love.💖🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🦄

#gay #nonbinary #LGBTQ #affection #partner #partners #joy #love #openness #GayRights #LGBTQRights #progress #society

WordofTheHour
1 year ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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WordofTheHour
2 years ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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manuelcaeiro ☕
2 years ago

> Cats’ reputation for chilly indifference precedes them, and as anyone who has lived with a cat can attest, they couldn’t care less about your feelings, your personal space, or your property. In contrast, #dogs know how to #show #affection while still respecting others’ boundaries.

WordofTheHour
2 years ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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WordofTheHour
2 years ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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WordofTheHour
3 years ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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WordofTheHour
3 years ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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WordofTheHour
3 years ago

#affection : a feeling or natural impulse or natural impulse acting upon and swaying the mind

- French: affection

- German: Zuneigung

- Italian: affezione

- Portuguese: afeição

- Spanish: afecto

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@MadestMadness @ace #affection is nice, too. If you like that sort of thing.

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