#scruff
Was at #UCDavis Sunday for a Rubik’s cubing competition. My son was competing, not me. I spent some time browsing around in #Grindr, #Scruff, and #Sniffies.
OMG! Just as I was once surprised at how #chasers found me interesting, I’m having to warm to the idea of being found hot by much younger guys!
I got pinged by one 18 year old at the event and was really thinking about how we might hook up. No, we didn’t but I wanted to! 🔥🍆

This photo is in violation of scruff. Not feeling sad about cancelling subscription #scruff #GayScruff

I was going to pontificate on not feeling as involved on here as I used to be when I realized I don’t remember the last time I used the #ScruffWatch hashtag, so really I’m the problem (it’s me).
Happy Hump Day, and yay for it being more than halfway through the week!
I hope all of you lovely people are doing well 💜😘
He doesn’t ping me often, in #Scruff, but when he does I know he wants to piss on me. He’s not a talker. Ideally he’d find me prone on a trail, unload, and move on.
Tonight we were in the side yard in full view of the next house. I laid on bare ground and he stood above my head. Sometimes he’ll squat and feed me. Tonight I was his urinal, and he got off hearing his piss build up in the cup of my thirsty mouth. Then he’d switch to my chest and I’d swallow.
I enjoy seeing him over me, using me. But I close my eyes so I can focus on receiving him, his piss, and feel his dominance. The hottest thing was that when he finished, he just zipped up and walked away.
I was drenched with his scent on my clothes and in my beard, smiling all the way back to my car. Dripping as I was, I ran into a neighbor bringing out her trash cans. Not sure if they noticed since it was dark.i hope they did. Hehe
#BDSM #kink #fetish #piss #PissPig #submission #outdotors #public
bearbotics: these units have additional storage space and act as server/backup/control units for the other droids you own
#MaleAndroids #MaleASFR #gaybear #sexbot #bear #hairymen #hairychest #gaybelly #belly #furrychest #furrybelly #scruff #gayscruff #robot #droid #cyborg #scifi #sciencefiction

Time for my FCF pics:
ha, nope, not happening! 😆
#ScruffWatch pics I can do, though 🤭
Have a great weekend, all you lovely people 😘
Guess what‽ I’m not using the noir filter today because I can smell things again! 🥳
Fuck you COVID, I can (hopefully) do a better job of cooking dinner now that I can smell the food burning 🤣
I’m still struggling with the new glasses, so back to my old ones it is for today 🤓
It’s been a while since I posted #ScruffWatch and things are a bit messy at the moment facial-hair-wise… maybe I’ll get my shit together over the weekend.
Whatever your weekend holds, please have a safe, enjoyable time 💜
I’m not sure these glasses work as well with my face, and the prescription is taking some time to adjust to, but I have 30 days to decide before I’m stuck with them. 🤷🏻♂️
Anyway, here’s #ScruffWatch Number 1 with the new glasses!
I’m looking forward to spending time with friends this weekend. I hope my social batteries are charged enough to manage successfully.
Have a great weekend, all of you lovely people! 💜
Good Monday to you lovely people.
I’ve needed to “reset” on a couple levels: Physically, I’ve trimmed back the facial hair to stubble, and we’ll see where things grow from here for #ScruffWatch.
Mentally, I’m trying to focus on my successes with building authentic connections, and not let the failures derail me. Why put energy where it’s not wanted, when I can put it toward the people who want to be in my life, right?
Have a great week. I look forward to seeing you in my timeline. ❤️

@BearAdmirerCH yeah I shifted to #Scruff, #Grindr, and #Sniffies. Longtime #BiggerCity user, too.
#ScruffWatch Sunday 🌈❤️
Freshly showered and ready to make slightly goofy faces in a desperate attempt to receive your validation 🥹🥰

Hot guy pings me in #Scruff. Seems to be from out of town. No pic. Profile says #bottom, #submissive , #versatile. Pass, for play anyway.
But he pings me. Sends a pic. He’s stunning. I mean like WOW! 😍😍 We swap info. He asks what I’m into and I drop my usual litany of saved stuff since I bore of typing it and using time to handle known stuff — see pinned posts. Here’s the menu, dude.
What gets him off? Flip fucking, and heavy versatile stuff. I’m not his person. I’m not missing out being a #bottom. I enjoy #servicing and being used. It’s what #gratifies me. There are some things I #reciprocate on but top #energy is not present. Don’t expect that.
Why is it somehow reasonable to expect bottoms to do #flip? Are we just undiscovered tops? Is #desperation supposed to be sufficient to do things we don’t enjoy?
Hi! That Pride parade was certainly something. Very corporate, yes, but still wonderful to see the show of (drunken) solidarity from the (very very large) crowds. 😊 🌈
Here’s a quick pic from the party, since I’m overdue for #ScruffWatch
I suppose I can call these #ScruffWatch pics, since my beard is visible? 😜
I just wanted to take a couple pics 🤷🏻♂️
Here I am. 💙
Okay, the work day is over and I’m going for that run I mentioned earlier. And a SW pic for good measure! It’s a combined post; it’s economical! 😜
@JonFrakes1701 I would probably get more hookups from #Sniffles if I didn’t work and was childless. It’s frustrating really. My #AuDHD sometimes also means my brain doesn’t cooperate in executing plans I make or desire. But I still manage OK.
I also frequent #Scruff, #BiggerCity, and #Recon, but the number of successful play connections is lower. Better for chat. I recently dumped #GROWLr. @mikeybear
I’m behind on everything today: my Masto timeline, the Apple announcements… even my critically-important selfie posting! 😱
While I celebrate the fact that my new Apple Watch hasn’t (yet) been rendered obsolete, please [enjoy, ignore] this #selfie from my morning commute. Also, today’s view from the office window.
On commute home. Building kissy face arsenal for future deployment 😘
Hi! This June marks my second year celebrating #Pride as a member of the community. I still consider myself a baby #bi but am proud of the progress I’ve made in the past year. I have many of you to thank for that. To the friends still here, and to the friends who’ve moved on, you’re all wonderful people and I’m so fortunate to have found you. ❤️🥹
I’m sure I’ll bust out my pink/purple/blue shirt or some fancy decorations this month, but I’ll start off with a simple #ScruffWatch post as an amuse-bouche. 😜
🩷💜💙
He grabbed my by the #scruff of the neck, as I imagine he would one of his foxhounds, and said, "This is private land. How would you like it if I came strolling through your garden uninvited?"
"I don't have a garden," I replied.
Glad to be back in my #nest, I froze for a split second when I felt a tingling in the #scruff of my neck... I inhaled deeply, then exhaled slowly and long. For as long as that #firestorm was going on outside, it was #critical for me to hunker down and #relax.
It may look like she’s getting rough
When mother grips me by the scruff,
But that’s just how she cares for me.
I’m old enough to wander free,
But too small to be on my own.
Until I’m weaned and mostly grown,
My mischief-making brothers and I
Her full attention occupy.
#poetry #smallpoems #riddlepoems #pets #cats #kittens #poetrycommunity #mothersday #catsofmastodon
Mary's eyes narrowed.
"You're so bad," she said. "Sometimes I wish I could just pick you up the #scruff of your neck."
As a wolf, this made sense. But given that she looked like a teenaged girl right now, the idea struck me as funny and I laughed,
"Do you still think of me like a puppy?" I asked.
She smiled.
"I do. You were awfully cute when you were little. Why did you have to turn into… this."
Took a lunch break and still hoping this headache will go away. Trying and failing to relax. Maybe a #ScruffWatch post will make me feel better 🤔
Hmm. My #Autistic brain baffles me sometimes. Cute guy. Wants service. I’m totally in the mood. Sends me a pin to his location in #Scruff. Less than 10 minutes away by car. He asks me to wait a few minutes but I’m like screw it I’ll drive over just to see what happens.
Then “wyd?” I’m in the parking lot of the hotel. Then other questions. Flags start raising. Mostly that he’s a bottom. Shit.
Back I go to work. Too bad. I’d happily suck someone off in the restroom here. Can’t be that hard to find someone who needs to get a load out, can it? Ah well. Maybe I’m just not as in the mood as I thought.
#ScruffWatch on a gray, not-great day. No #ScarfWatch but the winter coat is back out because #Chicago.
Thank you to the friends who are providing me with guidance as I encounter new challenges and struggle on my journey. ❤️

I wonder what in my profile elicited this unsolicited review? Maybe it's when I state I loathe self-entitled twats, or maybe the fact that I call serial "woofers" stalkers?
Mayhaps he should have read my profile first instead of just looking at the pretty pictures then woofing & messaging.
🤷🏼♂️
bearbots on the beach
#gaybears #gaybear #hairychest #hairymen #hairymenlovers #gayscruff #instascruff #scruffgay #bearbot #gaybot #furryart #furrygay #gayfurry #gayart #gayscifi #hairyhomo #homo #homoerotic #homoart #art #gaybeards #scruff #scruffy #gaymen #gay #gayartist #photoshop #photoedit
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@shezza_t @AngieYWine I bought a suit for @Spanglor's brothers wedding. His eldest daughter (not conceived at that time) is now 17. I need a new suit, but forking out the money seems a waste. #scruff
I’d been discussing certain interests with a few guys on #Scruff and forgot I had this clip laying around. It rather excited them (and me!) so I thought I might share it here too. Yeah it’s from #BadDragon and it’s one of my favorite toys.
Jasmine
I hadn’t pruned the winter #jasmine for a few years, so it was definitely time to take it back to its form. It will bush out again really quickly! First pic is from its full bloom glory in early January.
#balconygarden #gardenlife
#gardenlove
#lovetogarden #gayswhogarden
🌈 #gaygardeners 🌈 #Vancouver 🇨🇦
#hanginggardenofharwood
#urbangarden #gardenersworld #urbangarden #verticalgarden #gardenpots #plantdaddy #gayagenda
#beardedgay #gaybeard #scruff
#scruffygay #vintagegay

A US catholic group purchased "anonymous" geolocation data to brokers for $4 million to track gay priests. The data had been collected from dating apps such as Grindr, Scruff, Growlr, OKCupid... and allowed the groupe to identify a few priests as users of these apps. https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2023/03/09/catholics-gay-priests-grindr-data-bishops/ #Privacy #Grindr #Scruff #Growlr #OkCupid
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"Name something that is sexier when it's in black."
#TeamVers #nsfw #superman #TomOfFinland #LeatherSling #Humanpup #pupBoner #BLUF #gear365 #recon #scruff #growlr #gaymastodon #gaybdsm #gayrubber #fetlife #OnlyFans #jff #LeatherGayMan #MuirCap #GayPorn #Batman #GayBDSM #CumSlut #GayIrish #HumpOfTheWeek #HumpDay #GayChastity #Gay #NoFearInGear #WeAreFetish
"A group of conservative Colorado Catholics has spent millions of dollars to buy mobile app tracking data that identified priests who used gay dating and hookup apps and then shared it with bishops around the country."
https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2023/03/09/catholics-gay-priests-grindr-data-bishops/
#Republicans #LGBTQ #Dating #OkCupid #Grindr #Scruff #Surveillance #Religion #Catholic #Church #Nutters
Your #Scruff data appears to be making it to data brokers and ad exchanges, allowing hate groups to target, harrass, stalk, out you or otherwise discover and share your identity to anyone that will pay.
Free link to get past paywall:


Well, as it’s highly unlikely I shall be in any state to date anyone in the near or even medium-term, I have deleted my accounts with #Daddyhunt and #Scruff. When I feel up to it, I shall also delete my other dating apps, none of which I have opened in more than a year - well until deleting!
Another bit of my life cut away…
Well, as it’s highly unlikely I shall be in any state to date anyone in the near or even medium-term, I have deleted my accounts with #Daddyhunt and #Scruff. When I feel up to it, I shall also delete my other dating apps, none of which I have opened in more than a year - well until deleting!
Another bit of my life cut away…
Happy Friday! I’m about to head out to drinks with a couple former coworkers. If you don’t hear from me for a while, it’s because I felt it best not to mix alcohol and social media. 😁
Wishing everyone a nice weekend! 😘
Oh, here’s an outtake for those of you that like the blooper poses. 😆
I posted the kid photo this morning, and now for the grown-up pics. I trimmed the beard down again… I believe this was the 3mm guard. As always, if you hate it, wait a few days 😆
The queer/camp movie recommendation list is now up to 142 films! https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1-QwhKce2wW5zbxAIkbohJeEueutOSJ9r-99M_sX4wHM/edit?usp=sharing
The quality of the list speaks well of the cultured, savvy, intelligent, good-looking, accomplished, beloved people who provided recommendations.
Hope you have a good day/evening/night! 😘
#ScruffWatch Tuesday! Sorry, I don’t have thick trunks or whatever else Tuesdays are supposed to contain. 😜
Now that I’ve corrected the oversight and watched Mean Girls, I need other recommendations for my queer cinema education. Suggestions are welcome.
I hope you’re all having a great day, because you deserve it 😘
Sad, wet Adam had to go clean off the car in the middle of a snow/sleet storm 😣
Certainly a soggy #ScruffWatch for this Thursday. At least I’m wearing a coat and scarf…? I suppose that makes this a #ScarfWatch post as well!
Hey all. I’m feeling better, but am still spending some time working from the couch this afternoon, so you get a lazy-looking #ScruffWatch.
I’m not sure what else to add to brighten your day, since I’m not qualified to post Hump Day pics like some of you 😏
I’ll just say that you’re all wonderful, savvy, intelligent, courageous, good-looking, talented, lovable people, and I hope that’s the message that gets through. 🙂
Proof of life! I survived the stomach bug and am ready to get back to posting mediocre selfies and making dumb jokes. (My ability to make dumb jokes is how you know I’ve recovered.)
Happy Valentine’s to those who celebrate. 😘
Okay, a shower helped. The nap before the shower helped too. I still haven’t eaten since lunch yesterday, but I *have* had a few sips of Vernor’s, so I should be cured momentarily. 😉 (That’s a Michigan—maybe Midwest?—reference for you. Vernor’s ginger ale is considered a cure-all for stomach issues.)
But at least we have a dehydrated and achy #ScruffWatch checked off the list!
And true to form, I didn’t make it into the Ivory for Mac beta. Perhaps on the third or fourth try I’ll get lucky.
Well well well, it’s time to get #ScruffWatch off the ground on my new account!
I’m posting today’s pic alongside the “before” pic since there are maybe one or two new people following 😆
For the new folks: this all started when I posted the “before” pic and then received a bunch of flack for shaving my face. I started taking a selfie each day to watch the scruff reappear on my face… hence #ScruffWatch.
I’m glad that lots of folks have been able to evacuate .lol in an orderly fashion. Keeping this community together would make me very happy.
Anyway, go enjoy your weekend, Mastodonians! 😘
Post-haircut #ScruffWatch! I’m somewhat cleaned up, and ready for Saturday evening.
Portrait mode had some trouble with the beard, it seems.
Enjoy the rest of your Saturday (or your Sunday, if appropriate for your time zone)! 😘
An unexciting entry for #ScruffWatch today, since the office views were obscured by clouds 😣
I’d prefer snow to rain, considering it’s Jan in Chicago, but no luck.
I think you can start to see my hair curling in the one pic (back of head), so I either need to get it cut or let it grow out. Undecided.
Have a good one, Mastopeeps!
#ScruffWatch from the IKEA parking lot!
If I’m not back in 3 hours, send help 😆
Happy #ScruffWatch Saturday. Out for a walk, very cold, but the sun is out so I’m taking the win.
Enjoy your weekend! 😊
Let’s bring the conversation out of the gutter and around to these wholesome #ScruffWatch selfies. Of note: I went with a different angle, and because of that I’m seeing an alarming amount of gray in the beard. 😕
Stay well, everyone! 😊
#ScruffWatch time!
Fun fact: today’s the first day w/ beard oil.
Another fun fact: I haven’t had *five* failed attempts to become speaker of *my* house! 🤭
And better late than never, we have #ScruffWatch Day 6!
We’re definitely reaching undeniably scruffy levels here, folks. 😜
Word of the Day is :-
BULGEALICIOUS
#TeamVers #nsfw #superman #TomOfFinland #LeatherSling #Humanpup #pupBoner #BLUF #gear365 #recon #scruff #growlr #gaymastodon #gaybdsm #gayrubber #fetlife #OnlyFans #jff #LeatherGayMan #MuirCap #GayPorn #Batman #GayBDSM #CumSlut #GayIrish #WordOfTheDay #Bulgealicious #GayChastity #Gay #NoFearInGear #WeAreFetish #Selfie #LGBTQ #Boost
Have a super weekend, I sure will.
#TeamVers #nsfw #superman #TomOfFinland #LeatherSling #Humanpup #pupBoner #BLUF #gear365 #recon #scruff #growlr #gaymastodon #gaybdsm #gayrubber #fetlife #OnlyFans #jff #LeatherGayMan #MuirCap #GayPorn #Batman #GayBDSM #GearFetish #Jockstrap #GayMan